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BM asked if dh and I

Anonymous
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Would be in their family portrait this year with our baby....
She said we are one big family and she wants to act like it.

I feel very uncomfortable with this.

Is there something wrong with her or is it my guilt for being the other woman?
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 24, 2014 at 1:04 PM
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MrsDavidB25
by Stacey on Nov. 24, 2014 at 1:05 PM

 Yeah I would have no interest in that. Tell her the thought was nice but you'd rather not.

Seagodess
by Emerald Member on Nov. 24, 2014 at 1:05 PM
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 I think that is very nice of her. She is being very mature and wants to make the best out of the situation.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 24, 2014 at 1:06 PM
I don't know, it depends on the family dynamic. In most cases I would say yes, that's weird.
Danesmommy1
by Grammar Enthusiast on Nov. 24, 2014 at 1:06 PM
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That is a little cozy of her, but I think the kids would appreciate having a picture that features the entire family.

Suck it up and smile long enough for the camera to snap a few pics.
waynebrianna
by Bronze Member on Nov. 24, 2014 at 1:08 PM
That would be awkward.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Nov. 24, 2014 at 1:09 PM
Who knows, maybe the kids requested it. Maybe the kids want a pic of their whole family. At least she isn't an asshat BM.
sarahfaith123
by sarah_luvs_2_b_mama on Nov. 24, 2014 at 1:12 PM
I would send your kid to be in it but if you don't want to you don't have to.
LAXmom21
by Ruby Member on Nov. 24, 2014 at 1:12 PM

  so he cheated on her with you?

Be thankful she doesn't make your life miserable. I would do it for the kids.

 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Nov. 24, 2014 at 1:12 PM
I would do it. The kids would probably love having a picture of everyone. It would be awkward, but something I would be willing to deal with for the kiddos.

I'm curious at the use of the term "other woman"... Did your DH cheat on her with you?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Nov. 24, 2014 at 1:12 PM
Okay tell her that sounds great, and then you can each hold one of your DH's hands too... Wtf...
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