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i just had my daughter and**update**

Anonymous
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I feel no attachment to her what so ever I don't even want to hold her.. is there something wrong with me?


**Update** I had her via emergency c-section i was in labour for 30 hours with no end in sight when they finally got me back to the OR my heart had stop.. they had to cut me open get my daughter out then shock me back to life. i still really dont want anything to do with her.... and i dont really feel like she is my daughter. when my doctor come in for his rounds i will talk to him



Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 24, 2014 at 1:39 PM
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mrsrodgers0703
by Emerald Member on Nov. 24, 2014 at 1:40 PM
You need to get to the doctor for Ppd meds.
lucky2Beeme
by Emerald Member on Nov. 24, 2014 at 1:41 PM

 Yes Maybe PPD ? if you continue to feel this way see your Dr. Congrats on your new baby girl.

AnnieGoolaheey
by Mrs. Annie Proffitt on Nov. 24, 2014 at 1:41 PM

Talk to your Dr. Could be PPD.

N_maricle
by Platinum Member on Nov. 24, 2014 at 1:41 PM

Postpartum depression, talk to your dr ASAP.

Molz09
by Platinum Member on Nov. 24, 2014 at 1:42 PM
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I'd check with your doc about ppd just to be proactive. Easier to get it taken care of now.

The bond will form. Not all women feel that instantaneous bond and that's alright! It'll come.

Good luck dear!
Thunderbug75
by Platinum Member on Nov. 24, 2014 at 1:42 PM
Most likely PPD. Please seek to your Dr.
jellybeanjean
by All the makeup on Nov. 24, 2014 at 1:43 PM
Ppd. I felt like that with my first. I also had a traumatic birth experience and that did not help..... Took a few months .... Like 5 even... Before I got better. Get help if you feel really down.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 24, 2014 at 1:44 PM
Post partum depression. Talk to your doctor.
WaterorWine
by Wino on Nov. 24, 2014 at 1:46 PM
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You might have PPD. Question (please don't take offense ladies)
Did you have a Csection?
Are you breastfeeding?

csections can affect bonding as well as not breastfeeding for SOME women. (Not all women, I had a csection and bonded just fine)
There are all sorts of hormones involved in each, it's not your fault. The bonding will come, but you need to talk to your OB.
luvnmyboi
by Platinum Member on Nov. 24, 2014 at 1:46 PM
It's a sign of PPD. You need to discuss this with your doctor.
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