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HIV/AIDS

Posted by on Nov. 24, 2014 at 5:33 PM
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Have you ever lost anyone to HIV/AIDS? 

Not a loved one, but my cousin's brother in law died of AIDS some years back also. 

Thing is, he was married and his wife said she'd come home and see him laying up on the couch with male friends watching movies and whatever. but didn't think anything of it. Whenever she came home there was a male friend in the house. She didn't know he was on the downlow. When she found out he had it and how he got it, she said she overlooked dudes in the house all the time, but she kenw she would've bitched out if she ever came home and saw some woman in her house with her husband -.- 


I remember his brother (my cousin's husband) was taking him to a hospital in Manhattan when he got sick, and he was basically reading otu names of men he had slept with from a little black book (most with children and wives because he was giving details on each) to his brother. he even told him that one guy had told him that he was HIV positive when he was about to have sex with him and he said, "I thought he was joking," he believed that's how he got it even though he wasn't certain. He was otu there just raw digging it.

His brother was so pissed, he said he wanted to stop the car on the Brooklyn bridge and shove him off the bridge because of the stupidty of the whole situation and how casually he was saying it. 

His brother turned the black book over to the hospital.

His wife got tested after he was diagnosed, she said she wasn't positive. We lost touch with her after he died...I often wonder what ever happened ot her.

by on Nov. 24, 2014 at 5:33 PM
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Danesmommy1
by Grammar Enthusiast on Nov. 24, 2014 at 5:36 PM
I've never known anyone with HIV or AIDS.
.Milfshake.
by on Nov. 24, 2014 at 5:36 PM

BUMP!

AvantGardener
by on Nov. 24, 2014 at 5:37 PM

I have. 2 friends. Both were intravenous drug users. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Nov. 24, 2014 at 5:38 PM

That sucks. :/ Nope, no HIV/AIDS in our family. Just a whole lotta cancer.

TresHijas111825
by Gold Member on Nov. 24, 2014 at 5:39 PM
I've never know anyone with HIV/AIDS.
MichLW69
by PackersXLV4 on Nov. 24, 2014 at 5:40 PM

I know someone who is HIV+. He contracted it in the 90's doing gay porn in CA. 

TheNamelessDoll
by Silver Member on Nov. 24, 2014 at 5:40 PM
The only person I know with AIDS is Dh's great aunt. I'm not sure how she got it but she's had it for over 10yrs, I believe.
ayacocca
by Lioness on Nov. 24, 2014 at 5:42 PM
Wow.. I hope that she's okay..
Yes, known of a couple with HIV..with today's treatments, its very manageable
imakehimscream
by on Nov. 24, 2014 at 5:43 PM
My uncle died from it, dh nephew has it from unprotected sex, dh cousin got it from her ex bf 20 years ago
faerie75
by Platinum Member on Nov. 24, 2014 at 5:44 PM

 how awful. i hate when downlow dudes infect their wives. so selfish.

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