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well its not cheating

Anonymous
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My bf and I of 3 years broke up.We hadn't talked in 2 weeks and I ended up sleeping with someone.Well...My ex called me to talk and here we are back together,idk if I should tell him about my fling or not:/
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 24, 2014 at 7:05 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 24, 2014 at 7:07 PM
You were broken up. I wouldno tell him since you got back together. It's not cheating.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Nov. 24, 2014 at 7:07 PM
Nope. None of his business.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 24, 2014 at 7:09 PM
He would be so upset but I feel like I'm keeping something from him.I just wanted opinions because it does make me feel bad but your right we weren't together.Idk why he thinks us breaking up meant we were still together lol

Quoting Anonymous 2: You were broken up. I wouldno tell him since you got back together. It's not cheating.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 24, 2014 at 7:14 PM
I know. Guys can be a pain in the ass sometimes.

Quoting Anonymous 1: He would be so upset but I feel like I'm keeping something from him.I just wanted opinions because it does make me feel bad but your right we weren't together.Idk why he thinks us breaking up meant we were still together lol

Quoting Anonymous 2: You were broken up. I wouldno tell him since you got back together. It's not cheating.
krusesbaby
by Platinum Member on Nov. 24, 2014 at 7:15 PM
Honestly, he probably had a few one night stands too. Id leave it be.
Liddy07
by Thesaurus.Rex on Nov. 24, 2014 at 7:16 PM

Hell no! All it would do is hurt him. Some things are best left unsaid.

CheerioHolder
by Ruby Member on Nov. 24, 2014 at 7:17 PM
You're right, it's not cheating.

I would still tell him.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Nov. 24, 2014 at 7:20 PM

I would mark it a rebound.  You were in a vulnerable place.

I would say "NO"...especially if you feel you want to be with this man for the long haul.  You were broken up...you were not "on a break."  This matter has me thinking of the Friends episode now.

Good luck and all the best!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Nov. 24, 2014 at 7:21 PM

I wouldn't say anything.

stargaze281
by Gold Member on Nov. 24, 2014 at 7:24 PM
it seems like you slept with another man too soon, it was just two weeks of a breakup. But I think you should let it go, he doesn't need to know. The reason you feel guilty for not telling is because you still have feelings for him. Just let it be and move on.
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