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I'm not welcome because of where I work?!

Anonymous
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I work 2 jobs, one is fish and game the other is I'm a bartender in a strip club....as I proud of working there no but fish and game doesn't pay very well so I gotta do what I gotta do to afford my kids.

Anyway bf invited me to thanksgiving with his family but when he called to confirm his mother told him "I don't want that hooked in my house!".....um......alright? I guess great grandma's house it is! Bf hasn't decided what he's gonna do but I'm not going to blame him or be mad if he goes to be with his family.

But if I were your son's gf would you "shun" me for being a bartender at a strip club? I don't dress sexy when I work, bartenders have to wear black pants, black shoes, and some sort of black shirt I typically wear a tank top
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 24, 2014 at 7:48 PM
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summerlove3677
by on Nov. 24, 2014 at 7:51 PM
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At least your working
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 24, 2014 at 7:51 PM
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My son wouldn't have a stripper girlfriend.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 24, 2014 at 7:52 PM
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I'm not a stripper so lucky you

Quoting Anonymous 2: My son wouldn't have a stripper girlfriend.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Nov. 24, 2014 at 7:53 PM
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She's not a stripper for fuck sakes.

Quoting Anonymous 2: My son wouldn't have a stripper girlfriend.
JamesMom714
by Platinum Member on Nov. 24, 2014 at 7:53 PM
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Screw them. Your job does not define you - even if you were a dancer who cares? People do what they have to do to make it sometimes.
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Tigress22304
by Platinum Member on Nov. 24, 2014 at 7:53 PM
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As a mother-I would see you as a mother busting her ass to provide for her kids-I see nothing wrong with being a bartender-even if it is in a strip club.

As long as you treat me and my family with respect-we're good. If you don't-we'll have problems.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 24, 2014 at 7:53 PM
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Nor a bartender gf who works in a strip club.

Quoting Anonymous 1: I'm not a stripper so lucky you

Quoting Anonymous 2: My son wouldn't have a stripper girlfriend.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 24, 2014 at 7:54 PM
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Pfft

Quoting Anonymous 2: Nor a bartender gf who works in a strip club.

Quoting Anonymous 1: I'm not a stripper so lucky you

Quoting Anonymous 2: My son wouldn't have a stripper girlfriend.
JamesMom714
by Platinum Member on Nov. 24, 2014 at 7:54 PM
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Aren't you just a lovely woman. People strip - it doesn't mean they are bad people. Get over yourself. And YES given the chance your son probably would date a stripper, he just wouldn't tell you!

Quoting Anonymous 2: My son wouldn't have a stripper girlfriend.
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over40bride
by on Nov. 24, 2014 at 7:54 PM
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It sucks but it is what it is.

You know how the world works and you decided to work at a strip club. Suck it up buttercup.

I worked in a strip club for years and dealt with the consciences. 

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