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am i a bad girl friend?

Anonymous
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Sunday is my daughters time with her dad. Me having epilepsy and her having autism, it's usually a day for me to relax and do things I can't do when she's here.
My boyfriend gets mad that I don't see it as time to jump in the sack. We don't live together and Sunday is the only time he and I can be alone in either his or my house.
Am I a bad girlfriend for not wanting to do that every Sunday?
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 28, 2014 at 2:35 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Dec. 28, 2014 at 2:36 PM

No.... but you may not be the girl for him and he may not be the man for you.

sarbear8508
by Platinum Member on Dec. 28, 2014 at 2:37 PM
Lol, no.
ashiilolo
by Gold Member on Dec. 28, 2014 at 2:38 PM
No. Maybe you should find someone who would rather relax with you.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Dec. 28, 2014 at 2:38 PM
I agree with this. He may need more time and attention than you are willing or able to give.

Quoting Anonymous 2:

No.... but you may not be the girl for him and he may not be the man for you.

Danesmommy1
by Grammar Enthusiast on Dec. 28, 2014 at 2:39 PM
I agree with the PPs, you aren't a bad girlfriend, but maybe this guy isn't the one for you.
Texasladybug84
by on Dec. 28, 2014 at 2:39 PM
You need someone understanding, but you need to be understanding too. Give and take. ❤️
Momluv269
by Silver Member on Dec. 28, 2014 at 2:40 PM

Its a whole day .... can you two not compromise and do both?

licyandgid
by on Dec. 28, 2014 at 2:41 PM
It requires ALL day and you can't get anything else done if he wants to have uninterrupted sex once one day a week? He's only a boy friend and you should both consider whether or not your desires and priorities are compatible at this point in your relationship. But if he was your dh, I'd tell you to try and either count on a couple hours of uninterrupted time for a roll in the sheets some time on Sunday, or find a compromise.
two4one
by Ruby Member on Dec. 28, 2014 at 2:51 PM
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You're not necessarily bad for not wanting to, but he isn't wrong in expecting it either. You have ONE day to have sex. If you can't even give him sex once a week while you are dating ,I don't see anything coming of this in the future. 

only_1_4_me
by Silver Member on Dec. 28, 2014 at 4:52 PM

I dont think so. If he cant accept you want some alone downtime, then he's the bad boyfriend.

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