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EDIT TITLE: MIght offend. Has to do with sexual fantasies.

Anonymous
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Sometimes when I am with my SO I imagine him with another woman.  No one in particular.  Just another random woman and it turns me on.  I don't always do this but it works.

Now I admit if this were to ACTUALLY happen I would NOT be OK with it.  Stupid and weird.  I told ya.   There's my confession. 

What's your weirdness in the BR?

Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 28, 2014 at 4:51 PM
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702girly
by on Dec. 28, 2014 at 4:53 PM
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I don't see why this would offend anyone. It's pretty normal to fantasize during sex and most people have fantasies they wouldn't actually act on. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Dec. 28, 2014 at 4:53 PM
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I imagine butt sex because my husband won't do it to me.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Dec. 28, 2014 at 4:55 PM
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A guy once told me he scream my name irl while having sex with another woman. I felt so bad 4 that woman. Why he was thinking of me i dnt knw
epoh
by Ruby Member on Dec. 28, 2014 at 4:56 PM
I've imagined myself with another woman, and I include SO in the fantasy by verbalizing it to him.
FoxFire363
by on Dec. 28, 2014 at 4:56 PM
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Um, no, that is not offensive. If that's what does it for you, nbd.
kristiwalker09
by on Dec. 28, 2014 at 4:57 PM
Tons of people have fantasies that are no go's in real life.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 28, 2014 at 4:59 PM

Oh I do that, too.  However I don't tell my SO about what I am thinking.  I dunno.  For some reason I think he would get weirded out.  I have talked to him about watching porn together (just guy and girl stuff, nothing too over the top) and he said let me think about it and get back to you.  That was 2 years ago.  Hence the reason I keep my mouth shut.  Otherwise we have a great sex life.  I just want to add some spice, you know?

Quoting epoh: I've imagined myself with another woman, and I include SO in the fantasy by verbalizing it to him.


epoh
by Ruby Member on Dec. 28, 2014 at 5:05 PM
Does he watch porn by himself?

I know my SO watches porn and he knows I watch porn, so I send him links of what I watch, and occasionally I'll ask him to show me something he watched that he liked recently. Maybe you could use a similar tactic to get him to open up.

I feel open and honest discussion in relation to the couple's sex life is important. And it never hurts to bring something up that you've talked about previously.


Quoting Anonymous 1:

Oh I do that, too.  However I don't tell my SO about what I am thinking.  I dunno.  For some reason I think he would get weirded out.  I have talked to him about watching porn together (just guy and girl stuff, nothing too over the top) and he said let me think about it and get back to you.  That was 2 years ago.  Hence the reason I keep my mouth shut.  Otherwise we have a great sex life.  I just want to add some spice, you know?

Quoting epoh: I've imagined myself with another woman, and I include SO in the fantasy by verbalizing it to him.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 28, 2014 at 5:06 PM

BUMP.  And I get it might be too early on a Sunday to be talking about this but GO!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Dec. 28, 2014 at 5:07 PM
Every once in a while I imagine my DH with a man....
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