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He has cheated on me again...

Anonymous
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My fiance and I have been together a total of 7 years. We were married and had 3 girls. He cheated on me for over 1 year with the same woman, and they got pregnant so I filed for divorce. After that we got back together again which we have been for 8 months. I recently found out he cheated on me yet again so I confronted him with it. He says he promises to not do it and that he's going through a tough time. Do I file for divorce again and make the girls go through it all one more time?

Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 31, 2014 at 5:31 PM
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DeeDee_28
by Gold Member on Dec. 31, 2014 at 5:33 PM
Once a cheater always a cheater!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Dec. 31, 2014 at 5:33 PM
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He has a character flaw. The cheating isn't going to stop.
TheYesMom
by on Dec. 31, 2014 at 5:33 PM
I would. Id feel shitty because id feel like i shouldn't be in this place yet again. But its better than the alternative. GL
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Dec. 31, 2014 at 5:34 PM

You said he's your fiance so you shouldnt have to file for divorce.


I should also say, I am very sorry that he has cheated again.  At this point, dont give him anymore chances.  You deserve better than that.  

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Dec. 31, 2014 at 5:34 PM
You need to be a strong women role model for your children. Don't tolerate this.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Dec. 31, 2014 at 5:34 PM
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You shouldn't have put yourself in the position to have to go through it again. Fool you once it's on him fools you twice ... well your just stupid.
MrsRA
by Gold Member on Dec. 31, 2014 at 5:36 PM

Well you either file for divorce and make the girls go through it one more time

OR

you accept him cheating and know that it will continue

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Dec. 31, 2014 at 5:36 PM
I've taken back a cheating husband but if he got someone pregnant, it would've been over. I can't imagine continuing after that. Is it because you need him financially and to help with your kids? Sorry but if he didn't change his ways after getting someone pregnant, there's very little chance he will ever change.
MrsDavidB25
by Stacey on Dec. 31, 2014 at 5:37 PM

 Nope. Stick with him again you lucky gal!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Dec. 31, 2014 at 5:37 PM
Move on.
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