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Why wont he admit to it?

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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I dont have one problem with porn. I dont care if my bf watches it.. hell we watch it together a lot... 

But for some unknown reason, he just WILL NOT admit to watching porn. AT ALL. I opened the history this morning to pull up a website I was on yesterday and saw a couple of adult sites during a time where he was home alone. I poked at him about it. (in a joking way)


He swears he never watched porn. This isnt the first time either.. Idk if he is embarrased by watching it or what... but I dont like that he cant trust me enough to just admit to it. Especially since I have no problems with it...


Has anyone else ever run into this issue? 

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 14, 2015 at 9:04 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 14, 2015 at 9:07 AM
He's probably just embarrassed. I wouldn't push it.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 14, 2015 at 9:07 AM

That's what gets me about the whole porn thing. Whether you're cool with it or not the guy lies and acts secretive about it, hiding what he's doing. Do they know that they're doing something wrong to their woman deep down or what? That in itself is it's own debate lol, whether or not it's "wrong". They must feel like it is though, why else would they act like that about it?

Anonymous17
by Bronze Member on Jan. 14, 2015 at 9:08 AM
I wouldn't push the issue.
summer_Lynn
by Silver Member on Jan. 14, 2015 at 9:09 AM
Just leave it alone esp if you say you dont mind. Men just like to have certain things kept to themselves.
lucky2Beeme
by Emerald Member on Jan. 14, 2015 at 9:28 AM

If you dont care why do you check if he has done it and question him. Drop it.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 14, 2015 at 9:44 AM


Quoting lucky2Beeme:

If you dont care why do you check if he has done it and question him. Drop it.

I didnt specifically check to see if he has done it, It was just right there next to the site I was looking for. Thats all. 


I have let it drop. I havent talked to him about it beyond this morning. 

ejkdmom
by Platinum Member on Jan. 14, 2015 at 9:46 AM

How old are your kids?  Is there anyone else in the house with access to the computer that may look at the sites?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 14, 2015 at 9:52 AM


Quoting ejkdmom:

How old are your kids?  Is there anyone else in the house with access to the computer that may look at the sites?

No, my oldest is 7 and not allowed on this computer. Plus we were all gone except for him when the sites were visited.

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