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would you judge a man the same way you would judge a woman?

Anonymous
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Be it neutral, disgusted, supportive w/e. Would you judge a man with 9 children from 9 different mothers the same way you would judge a woman with 9 children from 9 fathers? Explain reasoning. I ask because my husband was telling me today about a man he met through a friend with 9 kids from 9 mothers.
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 14, 2015 at 8:06 PM
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Danesmommy1
by Grammar Enthusiast on Jan. 14, 2015 at 8:07 PM
I'd think he was disgusting idiot. NINE baby mamas? That's insane.
JaeMommy07
by Platinum Member on Jan. 14, 2015 at 8:08 PM
I surely would.
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janedoe13
by boxerdog lover on Jan. 14, 2015 at 8:08 PM

i would think he was a man whore with than many babies and babies mommas

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 14, 2015 at 8:09 PM
Yes, same judgment
Not_A_Native
by Ruby Member on Jan. 14, 2015 at 8:10 PM

Sure would.  Anyone who would bring that many kids into a variety of relationships doesn't begin to know the meaning of family - doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 14, 2015 at 8:10 PM
Well his dating pool will be smaller like anyone elses.
firebird78
by JKL's mom on Jan. 14, 2015 at 8:10 PM
I'd give the same judgement
But guys tend to get more "credit" from their girlfriends usually because they are idiots
B1Bomber
by Ruby Member on Jan. 14, 2015 at 8:11 PM

I would judge him as incapable of fidelity and totally irresponsible.

That's not really a judgment call so much as obvious, though.

quickbooksworm
by Ruby Member on Jan. 14, 2015 at 8:12 PM
Yes I would judge them the same. I wouldn't even consider dating someone with kids from 2 different women.
Leissaintexas
by Emerald Member on Jan. 14, 2015 at 8:13 PM
Yeah, that's just as sick.
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