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ex husband minus the divorce *ETA

Anonymous
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So, I left my husband about 4 years ago. I have been in 2 long term relationships since. All 3 of my kids are his. I left him cause I wasn't happy. He never had a chance to sew his wild oats before we had our first and it showed in his behavior. 

Fast forward to more recent. He is been amazing with the kids and really stepping it up in all areas. I have started seeing him through new eyes. Neither of us pushed for the divorce and I am seeing why now. I think subconsciously we both knew maybe one day we would want to be together again. Since I told him how I feel, I can't get him, us, our family out of my head. I want it all back.

Has anyone been through something like this before??

EDIT: Neither of us were unfaithful, just needed more time to grow up and realize what we had.

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 14, 2015 at 10:58 PM
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Momniscient
by Emerald Member on Jan. 14, 2015 at 10:59 PM
Nope. You couldn't pay me a billion dollars, torture me or coerce me to take my ex husband back.
the_dude
by abides on Jan. 14, 2015 at 11:01 PM

Fuck him

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 14, 2015 at 11:04 PM
Yeah my mom.....she still got divorced from my dad the second time. Just don't do it.
FlyingHottie
by Gold Member on Jan. 14, 2015 at 11:07 PM

My parents split up when I was in grade 5 and got back together when I was 19

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 14, 2015 at 11:11 PM
My ex and and I divorced. He remarried and it lasted less than a year before they divorced. We have two kids together and we cannot be more happy. We have been back together for almost a year and getting remarried.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 14, 2015 at 11:20 PM

Are they still together? How many years have they been back together?

Quoting FlyingHottie:

My parents split up when I was in grade 5 and got back together when I was 19


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 14, 2015 at 11:21 PM

That is great! This gives me hope!

Quoting Anonymous 3: My ex and and I divorced. He remarried and it lasted less than a year before they divorced. We have two kids together and we cannot be more happy. We have been back together for almost a year and getting remarried.


shoot4thestars
by Gold Member on Jan. 14, 2015 at 11:40 PM

My parents went through something like that.  They split up when I was 12 and 17.  Divorced when I was 21 and now they're together again.  I don't understand them.  I would feel like a total fool if I took my ex back, but he's done a lot of stupid stuff the last few years. 

rosie211
by Platinum Member on Jan. 14, 2015 at 11:42 PM
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Idk. Every situation is different. You do what you feel and think is right.
FlyingHottie
by Gold Member on Jan. 15, 2015 at 4:15 PM
13 years back together and now my mom is in a nursing home and my dad lives with me

Quoting Anonymous 1:

Are they still together? How many years have they been back together?

Quoting FlyingHottie:

My parents split up when I was in grade 5 and got back together when I was 19

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