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It's a sin to live together before marriage!

Anonymous
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That's what my mom keeps saying. We are now married but lived together for a few years before we tied the knot.  She just won't let it go and keeps telling us we sinned!  It's driving me crazy!  I personally think it's okay to live together before marriage just to make sure you are the right fit.  Maybe if more people did, the divorce rate wouldn't be so high.   I know that if H and I weren't compatible, we would not have gotten married.

So I am curious what everyone else thinks.  Is it a sin to live with your SO before marriage? Is it a sin to live with someone of the opposite sex at all when you are not married?

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 20, 2015 at 2:46 PM
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Mom2hjs
by Bronze Member on Jan. 20, 2015 at 2:48 PM
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No i totally agree with you.


Blooming_Lotus
by Platinum Member on Jan. 20, 2015 at 2:49 PM
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Sin is not a word that I choose to have in my vocabulary. I don't agree with the idea of "sin". 

I lived with my Dh before marriage. 

RavensRose
by on Jan. 20, 2015 at 2:49 PM
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I don't believe it is a sin. However I really do not believe in the Judeo-Christian concept of sin as a Hindu.

Mom2hjs
by Bronze Member on Jan. 20, 2015 at 2:50 PM
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My SO and i have been living together for 7 years, we are not married yet.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 20, 2015 at 2:50 PM
Depends on the person.

Dh and I lived toget her before we tied the knot.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 20, 2015 at 2:50 PM
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I'd start pointing out all of her "sins" and just make a huge stink about them. 

haydsmom2007
by Platinum Member on Jan. 20, 2015 at 2:51 PM
I live with my boyfriend. Whether it's a "sin" is not a concern of mine.
J.M.O.
by Ruby Member on Jan. 20, 2015 at 2:51 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jan. 20, 2015 at 2:51 PM
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I would never live w a man who wasn't my husband
Seagodess
by Emerald Member on Jan. 20, 2015 at 2:51 PM
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 I would not marry someone without living with them first. You learn so much by living together. Things that can make or break a relationship.

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