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Not my husbands child.

Anonymous
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Advice please
Im scared until i became pregnant i was a drunk.
I worked in a local bar .
Ive had many blackouts.
My dh has stayed with me despite this.
Now im pregnant , im scared .
I dont remember sleeping with anyone eles.
But i question myself.
What if i did?
What if i just dont remember it.
What if my baby doesnt belong to dh?
I wont know until the birth.
Dh has no clue .
I have a feeling im going to give birth to a child thats not dhs and he will divorce me.
I cant imagine life without him.
My marriage means so much to me and i have no clue how im going to pick up the pieces if this is a reality.
Im preparing for the worst.
How do you move forward after losing someone you love so much because you fucked up
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 31, 2015 at 1:04 AM
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rosie211
by I'm a nice one on Jan. 31, 2015 at 1:06 AM
Oh my.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 31, 2015 at 1:06 AM
Bump
tklrcl2014
by Gold Member on Jan. 31, 2015 at 1:06 AM
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Oh girl, get help for the drinking. Be honest, tell him you don't remember having sex with anyone else but it's possible you did. If you DON'T tell him, and the kid isn't his, that is fucked up.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 31, 2015 at 1:09 AM
I no longer drink . I stopped when i got my first positive. I dont plan on drinking after i give birth.

Quoting tklrcl2014:

Oh girl, get help for the drinking. Be honest, tell him you don't remember having sex with anyone else but it's possible you did. If you DON'T tell him, and the kid isn't his, that is fucked up.

ame85
by Chemistry cat on Jan. 31, 2015 at 1:12 AM
Do you have any reason to believe that you slept with someone else?? Waking up in a weird place or something?
HeavenonEarth81
by Gold Member on Jan. 31, 2015 at 1:12 AM

truth would be a good start

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 31, 2015 at 1:19 AM
Dh and i have only conceived once in 5 yrs . And after my worst blackout to date i found out i was pregnant. so i think i may have slept with someone and not remember it. How eles could i be pregnant? Dh cant have kids in the drop of a hat.

Quoting ame85: Do you have any reason to believe that you slept with someone else?? Waking up in a weird place or something?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 31, 2015 at 1:21 AM
I tried and chickened out halfway . Dh started to get upset and i felt like he was going to leave then and there so i stopped talking.

Quoting HeavenonEarth81:

truth would be a good start

kristiwalker09
by on Jan. 31, 2015 at 1:26 AM
Get help if you start getting urges.
Acknowledge your behavior.
Even if it's not his... you'd be surprised at how accepting some men can be and just remember, blood does not make a father. Daddy is the one that's there raising him/her through thick and thin.
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