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DH threatens me. Blended family drama

Anonymous
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We have been married 6 years.

From the start he was saying he is going for full custody of his kids. 6 years.

I told him that if that were the case he best keep a solid job for a year AND he is the primary parent meaning I'm not stepping in for their mom. He is. He feels he is better suited and I plan to see it.

Now he feel like he is threatening me by saying "I'm getting my kids,"

If all you needed to get your kids was a decent job and time management skills and you don't have that after 6 years then you don't want your kids.
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 31, 2015 at 1:19 AM
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Mommy2fourchics
by on Jan. 31, 2015 at 1:26 AM
I'm confused...
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 31, 2015 at 1:27 AM
Why?

Quoting Mommy2fourchics: I'm confused...
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 31, 2015 at 1:29 AM
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If I understand correctly, your Husband can't keep a job for a year or more?
Mommy2fourchics
by on Jan. 31, 2015 at 1:29 AM
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How is it a threat against you if he gets full custody of your step kids?

Quoting Anonymous 1: Why?

Quoting Mommy2fourchics: I'm confused...
Mommy2fourchics
by on Jan. 31, 2015 at 1:31 AM
I think it's the way it's written. (No I'm not a grammar freak) it was just all over the place.
NBVP1
by Gold Member on Jan. 31, 2015 at 1:33 AM
Yeah I don't get it either. What is the threat?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 31, 2015 at 1:34 AM
Pretty much. He has a hard timing getting on solid financial footing. 8 told him I'm not supporting them so until he gets a good job and keeps it I don't want to hear the custody shit.

BM has a job.

Quoting Anonymous 2: If I understand correctly, your Husband can't keep a job for a year or more?
bluebunnybabe
by kid crack dealer on Jan. 31, 2015 at 1:34 AM
Me too

Quoting Mommy2fourchics: I'm confused...
mom2hadley
by Jagged Edge on Jan. 31, 2015 at 1:34 AM
This post is confusing. I keep coming back to it for answers.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 31, 2015 at 1:34 AM
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This is why I would never marry a man with kids. I don't need the headache or drama. Especially when you come into a relationship with baggage and then want to make the new wife's life difficult. No fucking way. Just let him think he's going to get his kids. He's talking so much crap but you're right, if he was serious about getting them he would have his stuff together. He can't keep a job for a year and he wants to threaten you by saying he's going to get his kids? Why are you with him again? He seems like a first class loser to me.
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