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I am at my wits end with my daughter.

Anonymous
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My daughter is 10, almost 11. As like most moms, we've got rules for her. be respectful, no makeup, no boys, no lying, etc. More stuff. but she lies. Omg that child lies!!!!
Last year her dad gave her a tablet for her Christmas. But since she's had issues with the internet before, she was monitored at my house on it and she could not be on it all the time or after a certain time. And I made it very clear to her dad how it was going to be at my house since he didn't tell me about the previous incident, his mom did.

Well come summer break, she's viewing porn on it at his house. I get a call, the tablet is taken away.

Well come to find out, she got it back at Christmas and neither one told me. I get a call from him last night asking why she has a boyfriend (not allowed), this that and the other.

Well the tablet was at her friends house being used by her friend (friend lied to me and her mother about that), then come to find out my daughter was telling her friends mother that her stepfather beats her! Smacks her in the face, beats her with a belt and a spoon! What the ever loving fuck? He's strict with her due to the lying, sneaking and stealing, but I hand out any corporal punishment (which doesn't happen often).

And someone has been viewing incestuous porn on their family iPad.

She's going to a therapist asap as I know NONE of that shit is going on at my house. until last week I was a SAHM and the things she told her friends mom was over a month ago.

I'm just so beyond pissed that this child has lost all sort of sense and respect that she had until she started puberty.

Advice? Anything would be helpful right about now.
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 23, 2015 at 8:31 AM
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Careeka22
by Caitlin on Feb. 23, 2015 at 8:35 AM

 Ugh.. I'd just say you on on the right track with therapy. I have 2 little girls 3 and 7m and this post and others scare the shit out of me to be honest.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 23, 2015 at 8:35 AM
I don't have any experience with that yet. I think it's a good thing she'll be seeing a therapist. Good luck.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 23, 2015 at 8:47 AM
I just don't understand why she's saying, thinking, or doing any of this... I wasn't the best child growing up and but I sure as hell wasn't like this! She's starting to really remind me of my little sister. Ugh
mamzie1
by Silver Member on Feb. 23, 2015 at 8:55 AM
Glad you have therapy lined up. Maybe a Dr visit as well?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 23, 2015 at 8:59 AM

Monitor the friends she keeps.  Take away all electronic stuff and from now no gifts of that sort. 

PogoPalOj
by on Feb. 23, 2015 at 9:00 AM

 Well... My daughter still can't stand the smell of Palmolive.  She had so much of it in her mouth when she lied.

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