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No, I am not crazy. Yes, I am scared. and Yes, I do need advice from some moms who have been in my situation.

Anonymous
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This comiing March my husband and I will be married for 2 years. How has my marriage been so far? HELL.he

He has done nothing but cheat since we have gotten married and I havent left yet because I dont have the financial stabillity to leave. Iv been miserable. I have 3 small kids and Im scared divorcing their dad will hurt them....IDK what to do Im scared to be a single pringle of three kids by my self!

he knows Iv had it and Im ready to leave so hes been trying really hard to play with my emotions, and its working....and im scared...

I really just need advice...my parent want nothing to do with me because I got my first tattoo a month ago...'its a sin and your body is a temple" or whatever.

I really just need encouragment and advice.... :(

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 23, 2015 at 11:19 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 23, 2015 at 11:20 AM

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lauren.m
by Ruby Member on Feb. 23, 2015 at 11:20 AM
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I left with 4. It was hard. Best decision ever.
Danesmommy1
by Grammar Enthusiast on Feb. 23, 2015 at 11:21 AM
Leave.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 23, 2015 at 11:21 AM

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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 23, 2015 at 11:22 AM
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The tattoo is a sin, but having children out of wedlock...
Medic32
by Go PREDS! on Feb. 23, 2015 at 11:23 AM
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You need to get your ducks in a row.

Make copies of all financial and legal documents, a week worth of meds, and put them in a safe deposit box at a bank.

Go apply for school, social seevices like WIC, FS, childcare, section 8, etc.

Contact your local Legal aid and domestic violence shelter. Both offer free services to those being financially and emotionally abused.
rosie211
by Platinum Member on Feb. 23, 2015 at 11:23 AM
Even without family support, it is entirely possible to leave. Reach out and find ways to get help. There is low income housing, shelters, food stamps etc.

Do it for your kids. Do you think that staying miserable is good for them?
wise.toes
by on Feb. 23, 2015 at 11:23 AM

sometimes you just gotta take the leap.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 23, 2015 at 11:23 AM
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I hear ya. Being a single pringle would scare me too.  But you know you need to leave.  You have to figure something out.

Quoting Anonymous 1:

.IDK what to do Im scared to be a single pringle of three kids by my self!


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 23, 2015 at 11:23 AM

 

Quoting lauren.m: I left with 4. It was hard. Best decision ever.

were christians, and they are using things to scare me if I do like " God will punish you if you divorce him" and its makig me even more terrified. 

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