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both dh and i are illegals and we're splitting up

Anonymous
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We have 2 kids together ages 4 and 2. I can't take anymore of his drinking and cheating so I decided to leave him. We are not legally married, we are not even living in the u.s legally. I'm Colombian and dh is Honduran. He wants the kids to go with him to Honduras and I want my kids with me in Colombia. We don't want to stay in this country anymore.
I don't know what to do. He said he will take the kids to Honduras whether I like it or not. I moved to a other town but I'm scared that he will cone looking for me. I can't leave until another 2 months. I'm scared.
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 23, 2015 at 3:10 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 23, 2015 at 3:11 PM

Take your babies and hightail it out of there before he can take them.

vegaswife2011
by LMAO on Feb. 23, 2015 at 3:12 PM
Ummm.....wow. Good luck with all that.
thetrollcat
by on Feb. 23, 2015 at 3:12 PM

Why did you all come to America? What were your hopes and dreams? How do you plan to get home again?

This is a very difficult situation.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 23, 2015 at 3:12 PM
Take your kids back to your home
He can't come after you there.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 23, 2015 at 3:13 PM
The problem is that I can't leave until I have a little bit of money for the road to Colombia. That will take about 2 months

Quoting Anonymous 2:

Take your babies and hightail it out of there before he can take them.

Jezzeria
by Bronze Member on Feb. 23, 2015 at 3:14 PM
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Does he know where you currently are living?  Move somewhere he cannot find you. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Feb. 23, 2015 at 3:15 PM
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Report him anon to immigration
PogoPalOj
by on Feb. 23, 2015 at 3:15 PM
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 Bye

elfling811
by on Feb. 23, 2015 at 3:16 PM
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Do you have any family that can bring you home now? I'd be getting the fuck up out of there if I was you.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 23, 2015 at 3:17 PM
The American dream. We wanted to settle here and make a new life. We met in Mexico on our way north and we had a lot of the same dreams and ideas. Everything went bad now and I am homesick. My plan is to drive to Florida . From there take a boat to Colombia, barranquilla. I know its not a good plan but I can't stay here longer.

Quoting thetrollcat:

Why did you all come to America? What were your hopes and dreams? How do you plan to get home again?

This is a very difficult situation.

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