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I blame the victim

Anonymous
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In domestic abuse situation...a little.

now, the first time...it is no one's fault besides the abuser.  However, if the abused keeps going back to the abuser and doesn't tell anybody...I have no sympathy.

im evil right?

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 27, 2015 at 9:57 AM
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momma2mms
by Kristin on Feb. 27, 2015 at 9:58 AM
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It's easy to think that way if you have never been there.
TraceEvidence
by Platinum Member on Feb. 27, 2015 at 9:58 AM
meh
brettsmomma
by ~Tammie~ on Feb. 27, 2015 at 9:58 AM
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O shut up. Until you are in it you have no clue. I wont even try to explain whats wrong with this statement.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 27, 2015 at 9:58 AM
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Nah you're just uneducated on domestic violence. Opinions are like assholes, everybody has one
Danesmommy1
by Grammar Enthusiast on Feb. 27, 2015 at 9:59 AM
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You are ignorant of the psychological effects of abuse, I guess.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 27, 2015 at 10:00 AM
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I have been. So has every woman in my family. I was the first to walk away.

Quoting brettsmomma:

O shut up. Until you are in it you have no clue. I wont even try to explain whats wrong with this statement.


MamaRae85
by *you're on Feb. 27, 2015 at 10:01 AM
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I disagree... a lot.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Feb. 27, 2015 at 10:02 AM
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Nope, I feel the same way. How many posts do you read on here where a man beats the shit out of his wife and she hops on CM rather than calling the police? If you act like an idiot I'm going to call you out on it. That's not evil, it's called being honest. You don't get to play the low self esteem card when kids are in the mix. You either get them help or you're taking part in hurting them. You're part of the problem.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Feb. 27, 2015 at 10:02 AM
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The abuser convinces the victim that they deserve it so they will keep going back to them. It is not the victims fault.
semazani
by on Feb. 27, 2015 at 10:03 AM
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I don't see evil as much as I see lack of understanding....you can't understand fully if you have never been there....

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