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I know its not about me....but I dont know if I can handle more...

Posted by on Mar. 4, 2015 at 5:13 AM
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My mother, father, grandparents, and my older brother, 30 at the time, all died of cancer. Within 2 years of each other.

My younger brother, 33, survived stage four, three years ago. And now they have found four more spots. He is starting radiation today.

I raised my brother after our parents passed. It feels the same as if it were one of my girls. I just dont know what to do, say? He said "everyone dies". I dont want it to be his time.

He has four children, 12, 10, 9 and 6. His wife is amazingly strong. I'm losing my mind.
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Valentina327
by Silver Member on Mar. 4, 2015 at 5:16 AM
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I Can't even imagine that much loss. I'm so sorry ... I hope he fights and wins permanently this time! I'll say a prayer for you and your family.
momluvspeanut
by on Mar. 4, 2015 at 5:17 AM
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All u can do is PRAY! πŸ˜‡

So sorry for UR loss of family members!
jjames1990
by on Mar. 4, 2015 at 5:19 AM
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Thank you. I have only prayed a handful of times in my life. In the past 10 hours, I haven't stopped.

Quoting Valentina327: I Can't even imagine that much loss. I'm so sorry ... I hope he fights and wins permanently this time! I'll say a prayer for you and your family.
jjames1990
by on Mar. 4, 2015 at 5:19 AM
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Thank you

Quoting momluvspeanut: All u can do is PRAY! πŸ˜‡

So sorry for UR loss of family members!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Mar. 4, 2015 at 5:20 AM
I am so sorry! You're in my thoughts. Stay strong mama.
jjames1990
by on Mar. 4, 2015 at 5:23 AM
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Thank you.

Quoting Anonymous 1: I am so sorry! You're in my thoughts. Stay strong mama.
momluvspeanut
by on Mar. 4, 2015 at 5:29 AM
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You're welcome. May God be with u and ur family in this time of need.

Dear God:
Please bless this family and give this woman's brother the strength to keep fighting his battle with cancer. Please allow the doctors to do their job to help save this man, so that he may return home to his children, wife, sister, and others and live a long happy life. Please God find it in UR loving heart to allow this man a full recovery, so he may be there for his children and watch them grow into adults. Have mercy on his soul and help him to come home soon cancer free. In Jesus' name, Amen

Quoting jjames1990: Thank you

Quoting momluvspeanut: All u can do is PRAY! πŸ˜‡

So sorry for UR loss of family members!
SissyAnn141
by Platinum Member on Mar. 4, 2015 at 5:31 AM
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Quoting jjames1990: Thank you.
Quoting Anonymous 1: I am so sorry! You're in my thoughts. Stay strong mama.

           Are you taking care of yourself ?

        Does your Doctor know of the family history ?

       Take care of yourself also........In my prayers     praying

jjames1990
by on Mar. 4, 2015 at 5:33 AM
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I needed that. Thank you.

Quoting momluvspeanut: You're welcome. May God be with u and ur family in this time of need.

Dear God:
Please bless this family and give this woman's brother the strength to keep fighting his battle with cancer. Please allow the doctors to do their job to help save this man, so that he may return home to his children, wife, sister, and others and live a long happy life. Please God find it in UR loving heart to allow this man a full recovery, so he may be there for his children and watch them grow into adults. Have mercy on his soul and help him to come home soon cancer free. In Jesus' name, Amen

Quoting jjames1990: Thank you

Quoting momluvspeanut: All u can do is PRAY! πŸ˜‡

So sorry for UR loss of family members!
jjames1990
by on Mar. 4, 2015 at 5:34 AM
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I am and he does frequent scans and chest xrays. Just had a brain ct and MRI. He doesnt take any chances. Thank you.

Quoting SissyAnn141:

Quoting jjames1990: Thank you.

Quoting Anonymous 1: I am so sorry! You're in my thoughts. Stay strong mama.

           Are you taking care of yourself ?

        Does your Doctor know of the family history ?

       Take care of yourself also........In my prayers     praying

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