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My ex-husband cheating on me 3 years ago

Anonymous
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And I'm still upset. Not angry, still love the man. I have forgiven him fully as well. He has moved on too and has new girlfriend. Just annoyed. Is this normal. Why do I still care/think about it!?

In fact it makes me tear up just writing this! I am not even in love with the man still as far as I know.

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 4, 2015 at 12:48 PM
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CampHarris
by Platinum Member on Mar. 4, 2015 at 12:49 PM

I would never recover from it either.  That's why I know if SO ever cheated on me, it would be best for both of us to end it.  I could never look at him the same way again.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 4, 2015 at 12:49 PM
It's a deep betrayal, not one easily overcome. However, when you choose to forgive, it's time to move past.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 4, 2015 at 12:50 PM
It's normal.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Mar. 4, 2015 at 12:50 PM
Have you done counseling?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 4, 2015 at 12:51 PM


Quoting Anonymous 4: Have you done counseling?

No I have not.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Mar. 4, 2015 at 12:52 PM
That would be a start.

Quoting Anonymous 1:

Quoting Anonymous 4: Have you done counseling?

No I have not.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Mar. 4, 2015 at 12:53 PM
You aren't over it yet - which is fine you still need to work through your feelings. Have you talked to a therapist?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 4, 2015 at 12:53 PM


Quoting Anonymous 2: It's a deep betrayal, not one easily overcome. However, when you choose to forgive, it's time to move past.

It sure is a deep betrayal. Best way to describe it. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Mar. 4, 2015 at 12:53 PM
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Because he betrayed you. He had no love or respect for you when he stuck his dick in another woman, he thought only of himself. I have no idea how women can move on from that, my imagination would be my worst enemy. I'd picture him with the other woman for the rest of my days, I'd have to leave.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 4, 2015 at 12:54 PM


Quoting Anonymous 4: That would be a start.
Quoting Anonymous 1:


Quoting Anonymous 4: Have you done counseling?

No I have not.

Perhaps, but honestly counselors have never helped me. Also, I feel spending time thinking about him would just seem, lopsided. I don't want to give him the energy. However maybe I should give it the energy. I will think about it. 

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