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Crazy MIL

Anonymous
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My MIL went to my husbands family and told them all about my personal financial situation.  It got back to me and I'm upset.  She is constantly starting trouble.  We cut ties with her a while back and just starting speaking again.  Things were looking good and then this.  I feel betrayed.  What would you do?

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 4, 2015 at 3:51 PM
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RSass
by Bronze Member on Mar. 4, 2015 at 3:53 PM
Ask her why she did that
Baby4us09
by Platinum Member on Mar. 4, 2015 at 3:54 PM
Why discuss personal information with her?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 4, 2015 at 3:57 PM

 I know.  I had to learn the hard way. 

Quoting Baby4us09: Why discuss personal information with her?

 

Baby4us09
by Platinum Member on Mar. 4, 2015 at 3:59 PM
I wouldn't discuss anything with her that should be between you and dh

Quoting Anonymous 1:

 I know.  I had to learn the hard way. 


Quoting Baby4us09: Why discuss personal information with her?

 

janedoe13
by boxerdog lover on Mar. 4, 2015 at 4:00 PM

i would cut ties permanently and never look back.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 4, 2015 at 4:04 PM

 even if she apologizes?

Quoting janedoe13:

i would cut ties permanently and never look back.

 

Sydel
by Platinum Member on Mar. 4, 2015 at 4:06 PM

How does she know your personal information in the first place?

I love my MIL she's flighty and says random things sometimes but I couldn't imagine my life without her.

janedoe13
by boxerdog lover on Mar. 4, 2015 at 4:07 PM

even if she apologized i would still cut ties with her.  you said that you cut ties with her before so i am going to assume she said or did something that made you and your s/o mad. then she turns around and pulls a stunt again. it seems like she will never learn. 

Quoting Anonymous 1:

 even if she apologizes?

Quoting janedoe13:

i would cut ties permanently and never look back.



Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 4, 2015 at 4:13 PM

 Yes, I feel like we just have to "tolerate" her, so what's the point?

Quoting janedoe13:

even if she apologized i would still cut ties with her.  you said that you cut ties with her before so i am going to assume she said or did something that made you and your s/o mad. then she turns around and pulls a stunt again. it seems like she will never learn. 

Quoting Anonymous 1:

 even if she apologizes?

Quoting janedoe13:

i would cut ties permanently and never look back.

 

 

 

janedoe13
by boxerdog lover on Mar. 4, 2015 at 4:16 PM

my point is that if you dont cut ties your going to keep going through this same stuff with her. 

Quoting Anonymous 1:

 Yes, I feel like we just have to "tolerate" her, so what's the point?

Quoting janedoe13:

even if she apologized i would still cut ties with her.  you said that you cut ties with her before so i am going to assume she said or did something that made you and your s/o mad. then she turns around and pulls a stunt again. it seems like she will never learn. 

Quoting Anonymous 1:

 even if she apologizes?

Quoting janedoe13:

i would cut ties permanently and never look back.





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