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Getting CS

Anonymous
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My H and I divorced 5 years ago. He has custody of our DD. I get her 2 weekends a month and 3 weeks in the smmer.

I am poor whole he males close to $400,000 a year if not more. I live in one bedroom apartment. He lives in gated community. My friends tell me that he could be responsible for keeping both homes the same. Is that true?

Also there has been times where they send food with DD can I make that a reglar thing?

Also I don't like the idea od his girlfriend arond DD. Can I do anything about that?

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 15, 2015 at 7:53 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 15, 2015 at 7:57 AM
No.
Closet_Case
by Gold Member on Mar. 15, 2015 at 8:01 AM

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MichLW69
by PackersXLV4 on Mar. 15, 2015 at 8:06 AM
1 mom liked this
It's too early for this stupid shit.
summerlove3677
by on Mar. 15, 2015 at 8:09 AM
Lol

Or you could be a good parent. *shrugs* your choice.
curvygurl1912
by on Mar. 15, 2015 at 8:09 AM

This isn't even a 2. 

It's like you trolls don't even try anymore....

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 15, 2015 at 8:12 AM
Go back to bed troll
JC2223
by Platinum Member on Mar. 15, 2015 at 8:14 AM

Contact a lawyer, they can tell you the answers to these questions.

chanizen
by on Mar. 15, 2015 at 8:17 AM
Why don't you work to improve your income if you don't like the money you are making.

He doesn't have an obligation to make the homes "the same".

Cs is intended to support the child. While you may get a small amount if the income is that different, you may also wind up paying. You may lose the good will that causes him to send meals with her.

And, no, you cannot prevent a custodial dad from having his girlfriends around without good reason. I doubt a morality clause would hold at this point.

Why create war over something you can entirely control (your income).

Don't be ridiculous
rockgal81
by Steph on Mar. 15, 2015 at 8:18 AM
Seriously?! Ugghhh
summerlove3677
by on Mar. 15, 2015 at 9:17 AM
I went and got donuts this morning. Anyone want some?
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