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What do you think he means????

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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Ok. Dh and I have been fighting about small petty stuff a lot lately. It's the same fights (I get mad that he doesn't help enough, he forgets stuff, etc) we always have. It's really getting to both of us because we keep having these same fights and don't know if we can fix the problems.
We've tried to fix the issues before, but we always go back to the way things are....
He left Friday afternoon to stay a couple nights with a friend. Now, he's staying with his dad.

He says he doesn't know if he wants to save our marriage or not. I asked him to go to counseling tomorrow at 6. He said he had to think about it. But he told his dad like 20 minutes late that he's going. He says he's not ready to talk. And he told his dad that he wants to wait to talk the first time until tomorrow night at counseling.
What is your opinion?
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 15, 2015 at 6:55 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 15, 2015 at 6:57 PM
He wants out. I hope you have a backup plan
JulyBabies
by Platinum Member on Mar. 15, 2015 at 6:57 PM

It's a good sign that he agreed to go to counseling...

crazycanary
by on Mar. 15, 2015 at 6:58 PM

I think you have no choice but to do what he wants and wait till tomorrow. Good luck.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 15, 2015 at 6:59 PM
That's not a problem. I work and can pay all the bills without him. I just really don't want to give up over stupid fights

Quoting Anonymous 2: He wants out. I hope you have a backup plan
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 15, 2015 at 6:59 PM
He's tired of being married to a nag,
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Mar. 15, 2015 at 7:00 PM
I think he is questioning if he wants to stay married. My guess is that he hasn't been happy for awhile and is finally ready to open up about it.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 15, 2015 at 7:01 PM
I feel like if he were seriously done, he wouldn't agree to go tomorrow. The idea that he won't talk to be before is what doesn't make sense

Quoting JulyBabies:

It's a good sign that he agreed to go to counseling...

CameraMum
by Anne on Mar. 15, 2015 at 7:02 PM

you're marriage is over, you husband is just trying not to be the bad guy.

CheerioHolder
by Ruby Member on Mar. 15, 2015 at 7:02 PM
Counseling is a great start. Just leave him alone until then.
Allebas
by on Mar. 15, 2015 at 7:02 PM

bump

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