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No you cannot take her.

Anonymous
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I really hate how my ex likes to call me last minute and try to come get his dd. Sometimes I say yes but mostly I say no. I'm not going to cancel the plans I have because of him. He needs to let me know ahead of time when he has days off.
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 16, 2015 at 10:55 PM
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Hannahluvsdogs
by Keyser Söze on Mar. 16, 2015 at 10:56 PM
Yep
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taylorsmom1987
by on Mar. 16, 2015 at 10:56 PM
Get a court order so no one is changing plans
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 16, 2015 at 11:04 PM
His days off change every week.

Quoting taylorsmom1987: Get a court order so no one is changing plans
taylorsmom1987
by on Mar. 16, 2015 at 11:06 PM
How far in advance does he knows his days off, if its far enough you two can come up with a schedule for the week and stick with it

Quoting Anonymous 1: His days off change every week.

Quoting taylorsmom1987: Get a court order so no one is changing plans
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 16, 2015 at 11:07 PM
I don't know. He doesn't tell me shit. I know he works nights.

Quoting taylorsmom1987: How far in advance does he knows his days off, if its far enough you two can come up with a schedule for the week and stick with it

Quoting Anonymous 1: His days off change every week.

Quoting taylorsmom1987: Get a court order so no one is changing plans
taylorsmom1987
by on Mar. 16, 2015 at 11:10 PM
Hopefully you guys can work together to come up with some short of schedule good luck

Quoting Anonymous 1: I don't know. He doesn't tell me shit. I know he works nights.

Quoting taylorsmom1987: How far in advance does he knows his days off, if its far enough you two can come up with a schedule for the week and stick with it

Quoting Anonymous 1: His days off change every week.

Quoting taylorsmom1987: Get a court order so no one is changing plans
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 16, 2015 at 11:11 PM
1 mom liked this
Thank you.

Quoting taylorsmom1987: Hopefully you guys can work together to come up with some short of schedule good luck

Quoting Anonymous 1: I don't know. He doesn't tell me shit. I know he works nights.

Quoting taylorsmom1987: How far in advance does he knows his days off, if its far enough you two can come up with a schedule for the week and stick with it

Quoting Anonymous 1: His days off change every week.

Quoting taylorsmom1987: Get a court order so no one is changing plans
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 16, 2015 at 11:51 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 16, 2015 at 11:51 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 16, 2015 at 11:54 PM
When my ex was involved in my oldest life, he tried that shit. I made it clear that he had had a friday 5 pm deadline to give me a schedule for the following week. I told him that if he didnt tell me by that deadline, the assumption would be he wasn't going to show up at all and I would not be answering his calls.

He was in and out of my sons life and I got fed up with his random pop ups.
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