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If my husband does not change, I don't think this marriage is gonna work.

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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I hate that my husband is not a family man. He wants nothing to do with family. His or mine.
His neice asks if we can come see her play. He says "no, she's not my child. I don't wanna go."
His other neice wants us to go to her birthday party. He refuses to go.
His cousin gets married he says no, that he don't care about his cousin.
His mom has a cook out, he don't wanna make the hour drive because it puts to many miles on the car.
His aunt has a easter party, he refuses to go because people he don't like will be there. It is to much to avoid them.

I can't even go visit my family by my self without him throwing a fit. Well you seen them two months ago, why do you need to go down there this month.
Oh your first blood nephew is being born, what is the big deal about that. You don't need to buy him anything, you don't even need to go see him.
Oh (insert name) is turning two, don'tgo to his party, quit calling him your nephew he isn't your nephew. And you need to take that gift back, he isn't your nephew. (Even tho my brother is his step dad, and I have been in his life from day one.)

My family lives two hours away from me, I miss them dearly. I have struggled for the 2 years I have lived here, with it. I use to see them everyday. Now I'm luckly to see them every other month. I am a huge family person. Without my family I would be lost. My grandma is also very sick. (She raised me.)

He use to not be like this, till we got married. Then he changed majorly. I just wanna spend time with family.
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 5, 2015 at 12:51 AM
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MilkLover0203
by on Apr. 5, 2015 at 12:53 AM
Um, why would he suddenly change like that?
LaughCryLive
by Emerald Member on Apr. 5, 2015 at 12:53 AM
2 moms liked this
Red flags. Abusers like to isolate their victims.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 5, 2015 at 12:53 AM
My dad is this way towards my mother. It's hard. :(
secretRgarden
by Silver Member on Apr. 5, 2015 at 12:53 AM

Why can't you go on your own?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 5, 2015 at 12:54 AM
I dunno. We had been married a month, and then he changed majorly.

Eta
it has now been almost a year of marriage.

Quoting MilkLover0203: Um, why would he suddenly change like that?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 5, 2015 at 12:55 AM
I do, but I still get all kinds of shit when I do.

Quoting secretRgarden:

Why can't you go on your own?

janedoe13
by boxerdog lover on Apr. 5, 2015 at 12:56 AM
1 mom liked this

what she said. 

Quoting LaughCryLive: Red flags. Abusers like to isolate their victims.


piperhalliwell1
by Platinum Member on Apr. 5, 2015 at 12:56 AM
agreed. i would ignore him and continue to keep the strong ties with your family, do NOT let him get away with that BS!

Quoting LaughCryLive: Red flags. Abusers like to isolate their victims.
MilkLover0203
by on Apr. 5, 2015 at 12:56 AM
When I got pregnant with my oldest, his father TOTALLY changed. Never left the house unless it was for work, wouldn't attend family functions, I spent Christmas with his family, without him. It was terrible. I drove myself to the hospital when I went into labor because he wouldn't drive.

Quoting Anonymous 1: I dunno. We had been married a month, and then he changed majorly.

Eta
it has now been almost a year of marriage.

Quoting MilkLover0203: Um, why would he suddenly change like that?
KJAM152023
by Member on Apr. 5, 2015 at 12:56 AM
Ugh he sounds like my dad that's exactky how he was growing up sorry he sounds like a real jerk
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