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am I lazy? or is DH pushing it?

Anonymous
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DH always tries to push the envelope.

Each year when we have a birthday for the kids he says he us going to invite people and not tell me how many and who is coming.

I said don't and you aren't helping or paying so don't

I just has my family.

He got pissy and slept the whole time and us still bitching that his mom didn't get to come....
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 10, 2015 at 9:06 PM
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jabs54
by Ruby Member on Apr. 10, 2015 at 9:08 PM
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Why would you NOT invite his family?!

The_Doodle
by Platinum Member on Apr. 10, 2015 at 9:08 PM

I think family from both sides should be invited but I do agree that you two need to make a list instead of just randomly inviting people.

smorgan865
by Emerald Member on Apr. 10, 2015 at 9:08 PM
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This sounds extremely mature.
Snakecharm
by Ruby Member on Apr. 10, 2015 at 9:08 PM
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Wait, what? You didn't let him invite his mom to her grandchild' birthday?

If you are married you are both paying, you realize that right? Why can he not invite his family to a family party?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 10, 2015 at 9:10 PM
Why don't you include your husband and his family in his children's birthday celebrations?
Hubris_Huntsman
by on Apr. 10, 2015 at 9:10 PM
Why would you not invite his mother?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 10, 2015 at 9:10 PM
Because he likes to not tell me who us coming. He likes to try to control the shit.
Then he gets random kids and refuses to take them home after.

I said only my family can come because he isn't going to help.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Apr. 10, 2015 at 9:11 PM
Why didn't you invite his family?
I don't invite mine, they never rsvp, show up late, leave early, so i simply stopped inviting them.
PhantomRose88
by Ruby Member on Apr. 10, 2015 at 9:12 PM

His mother should have been there. 

chinosruca
by Ruby Member on Apr. 10, 2015 at 9:12 PM
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I am so glad I don't have to deal with that crap. My mom lives thousands of miles away and his mom is a psycho from hell and wouldn't come even if we invited her. Our kids invite their friends. No one else. It is simple and a lot cheaper. No drama. You guys should sit down with the dust settles and figure out how you are going to do future parties/events, so that there isn't this temper tantrum happening while it is supposed to be a time to celebrate.
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