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would you stay?

Anonymous
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My fiance is always miserable, there's some days that we're good and really good, but the bad day's out weigh the good. He's even miserable around our kid's, he just a negative person anymore, it's literally bringing me down too, I don't even want to be around him sometimes. And to top it off, we have sex maybe once or twice a month, his choice not mine. Idk what to do, do you think this could be fixed?
Posted by Anonymous on May. 17, 2015 at 4:09 PM
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brimar
by Silver Member on May. 17, 2015 at 4:10 PM
Go now before being miserable the rest of your life
kmeow
by Ruby Member on May. 17, 2015 at 4:11 PM
I have no way of knowing that. You'll have to ask him.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 17, 2015 at 4:13 PM
That's exactly what my mom said.

Quoting brimar: Go now before being miserable the rest of your life
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 17, 2015 at 4:14 PM
Ask him if it'll work? He says he's happy, but his actions speak differently.

Quoting kmeow: I have no way of knowing that. You'll have to ask him.
RocknRoll.Rose
by Ruby Member on May. 17, 2015 at 4:15 PM
Maybe he is suffering from depression. I would encourage him to get some help.
petitekatie
by Platinum Member on May. 17, 2015 at 4:15 PM
I would suggest trying therapy. Maybe he's depressed for a reason? The only one that can say it's worth it or not, is you. Gl in whatever you decide.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 17, 2015 at 4:16 PM
I would say he is stressed. Possibly depressed. What are the major stressors in his life?
corticosteroid
by Sapphire Member on May. 17, 2015 at 4:17 PM

Yeah, what she said.

Why would you abandon someone you allegedly love because they're unhappy?

Quoting RocknRoll.Rose: Maybe he is suffering from depression. I would encourage him to get some help.


angl_gurl1
by on May. 17, 2015 at 4:17 PM

try counceling

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on May. 17, 2015 at 4:18 PM

since he only your fiance, get out now before you are married and its harder. things will never get better. time to move on. 

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