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He has cancer. And I like him

Anonymous
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This guy and I dated a few months . He dissappeared on me. Today I get a text he misses me and has cancer. Only 31:(
He wants a date this week. Im just so weirded out. What if we have sex I dont want to tire him out. In a way I feel bad for him. And guilty bcuz now I see him as sick.Would you go on the date?
Posted by Anonymous on May. 17, 2015 at 8:11 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 17, 2015 at 8:12 PM
Bump
sweettea1985
by Silver Member on May. 17, 2015 at 8:13 PM
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Go on the date and don't be an asshole. Treat him like a normal human being
CorpCityGrl
by Ruby Member on May. 17, 2015 at 8:13 PM
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Do you like him? If you like him, then go.

I know someone who went through this. SHE had cancer and told the guy she was dating. She actually pushed him away because she was sick. He stuck around because he liked her and said he was willing to take the chance. They eventually got married.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on May. 17, 2015 at 8:14 PM
Not all cancer is that serious, did you even ask what type he has?
ColleenF30
by Lube Girl on May. 17, 2015 at 8:14 PM

Depending on his treatment y'all might not be having sex. If you like him go!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 17, 2015 at 8:15 PM
He said it was a mass in his chest. I want to ask but felt weird

Quoting Anonymous 3: Not all cancer is that serious, did you even ask what type he has?
PoisonEyeV
by on May. 17, 2015 at 8:15 PM

Honestly I think I would go out of sympathy but deep down I'd probably feel as though I shouldn't and want to cut off ties with this person. I just wouldn't know how without feeling like an uber asshole.

wicked_tink
by twinkie humper on May. 17, 2015 at 8:15 PM
Take a chance and go out with him op...You might miss out on something good
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 17, 2015 at 8:15 PM
True my mind is in the gutter lol

Quoting ColleenF30:

Depending on his treatment y'all might not be having sex. If you like him go!

eve210
by Platinum Member on May. 17, 2015 at 8:15 PM
Would *I* go on the date? Probably not.
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