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WWYD?

Anonymous
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I need to find out more about my husband. He's so secretive about his past. I found his adult kids and ex wife on Facebook. I'm thinking of contacting them and asking them a few questions about him. He certainly isn't telling me anything. I wanna know more. WWYD?
Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 2, 2015 at 10:44 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 2, 2015 at 10:45 AM
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I would question if I want to stay married to him.....
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jun. 2, 2015 at 10:45 AM

Tell him you want to know more.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 2, 2015 at 10:46 AM
I did. And I caught him in a lie about his exs.

Quoting Anonymous 3:

Tell him you want to know more.

OwlNuggets
by HAIL NUGGY! on Jun. 2, 2015 at 10:47 AM
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I think digging behind his back is not the way to go about this if you want to keep your hands clean. Why not just tell him that his secretive attitude towards his past bothers you and that you found his ex wife and it made the curiosity burn even stronger and you'd like him to elaborate.

two4one
by Ruby Member on Jun. 2, 2015 at 10:48 AM

Contacting them would be YOU breeching HIS trust. 

Maevelyn
by Platinum Member on Jun. 2, 2015 at 10:49 AM
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I would not marry someone with a secret past. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jun. 2, 2015 at 10:49 AM

And then ......?

Quoting Anonymous 1: I did. And I caught him in a lie about his exs.
Quoting Anonymous 3:

Tell him you want to know more.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 2, 2015 at 10:49 AM
Our marriage is over either way I go.

Quoting OwlNuggets:

I think digging behind his back is not the way to go about this if you want to keep your hands clean. Why not just tell him that his secretive attitude towards his past bothers you and that you found his ex wife and it made the curiosity burn even stronger and you'd like him to elaborate.

PhantomRose88
by Ruby Member on Jun. 2, 2015 at 10:49 AM
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Why are you married to a man you don't know anything about?   I knew my husband 3 weeks before I married him and I knew his whole life story, before we married.  I wouldn't have married him otherwise.  

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jun. 2, 2015 at 10:49 AM
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No....Don't drag them into your drama. Ask him. If he won't tell you what you want to know and don't feel comfortable with him, divorce him.

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