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I'm sorry i can't cover your a** anymore update

Anonymous
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Currently my house guest believes she can stay an entire month(this is my best friend the same one who messed with my thermostat) when office management told me a few days, or they'd kick me out.

I'm moving next weekend to a 3 bedroom apartment she has bought her own food and basically made herself at home even trying to take over parenting my kids.

She's 22 with no kids of her own and she has cp(so do i but hers is worse). She's supposed to be here looking for an apartment(i took her out monday and helped her get started) now she expects me to pay for the bus fare when we go looking for an apartment for her.

She is going to get me and my kids kicked out on the streets if she doesn't leave. She spent $149 to get here(that includes cab money). When she got here she informed me that her stepmom would be out of town(she's originally from Milwaukee wisconsin) for a week at the end of the month and she wants to just stay here until sept.

Um no she is already driving me crazy picking at what we eat(my kids and i eat meat she's vegan) telling dd and my 1 year old ds the milk i buy is titty milk because it comes from cows.

I'm trying to learn what she eats and doesn't and take her into consideration when it comes to food hell i'm willing to buy boca patties for her ass and i've been told by her and others that buying vegan is expensive.

She also has bought fruit thats going to ROT on my counter top because she hasn't touched it and refuses to let my kids have any not even if they ask(dd is 5 and is afraid to ask because she's afraid she'll be yelled at for asking).

My dd loves fruit so i bought a small container of strawberries for her. My friend has a huge thing and refused to give dd any when she asked. My friend said your kids are not to touch my fruit.

Whatever i buy is for all of us and is to be shared. I'm gonna tell her i can't cover her ass because my kids have to come first and if she doesn't leave we will be out on the streets. I hate to see her out on the streets but she has to go or look for an apartment by herself.

Update

I told her they are now threatening to kick me out if she isn't gone and she just got quiet didn't say well i'll leave this week or anything. They even told her she could only stay a few days. It's like she's not comprehending any of what i'm saying.
Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 8, 2015 at 6:46 AM
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Salut123
by Ruby Member on Aug. 8, 2015 at 6:49 AM

People treat you how you let them. If you get kicked out, it is 100% your fault. You know the rules and are choosing to break them.

nmkj
by Emerald Member on Aug. 8, 2015 at 8:48 AM
You need to make her leave before you end up homeless yourself.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 8, 2015 at 9:40 AM
Thats my plan she is becoming a pain to deal with. I figured by us being up and making noise she'd get up and move around nope she laid back on the couch.

I've gotta make a run to walmart but when i get home i do plan on telling her she can only stay until wednesday and then she has to leave. She has the apps for the apartments but is refusing to fill them out until she goes back to Milwaukee. Those were her words not mine.

I told her to fill out the apps and get them in asap she said "i have 40 days to change my address with social security and my sm needs to get her paperwork together so i can change it."

I'm gonna tell her the head manager was up front and said she has to be gone by wednesday or they are gonna kick me out.



Quoting nmkj: You need to make her leave before you end up homeless yourself.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 8, 2015 at 10:40 AM
Have the police escort her out if she refuses to leave. She isn't a good friend.

Quoting Anonymous 1: Thats my plan she is becoming a pain to deal with. I figured by us being up and making noise she'd get up and move around nope she laid back on the couch.

I've gotta make a run to walmart but when i get home i do plan on telling her she can only stay until wednesday and then she has to leave. She has the apps for the apartments but is refusing to fill them out until she goes back to Milwaukee. Those were her words not mine.

I told her to fill out the apps and get them in asap she said "i have 40 days to change my address with social security and my sm needs to get her paperwork together so i can change it."

I'm gonna tell her the head manager was up front and said she has to be gone by wednesday or they are gonna kick me out.



Quoting nmkj: You need to make her leave before you end up homeless yourself.
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