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Finding out Your Husband is Secretly GAY

Anonymous
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What would you do?

Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 8, 2015 at 5:08 PM
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mommy211983
by on Aug. 8, 2015 at 5:10 PM
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I would be upset because I love him. However it's not something one can help. So it wouldn't be the same as if he was wanting another woman. I would do my best to accept him and co parent the best we can for our children.
I support gay people 100% and I would my husband if he was in fact gay. However he's pretty straight so it would be a shock.
Danesmommy1
by Grammar Enthusiast on Aug. 8, 2015 at 5:12 PM
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I'd be devastated, I don't want a divorce.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 8, 2015 at 5:13 PM

I would be very upset and would divorce him. I do have compassion for those who do not feel safe about coming out, but it is one thing to date someone for the sake of appearances and a completely different thing to marry someone based of such a lie.

merrysgirls
by Lame on Aug. 8, 2015 at 5:13 PM
I'd be shocked since he's so good in the sack haha
flaquitabss
by Gold Member on Aug. 8, 2015 at 5:14 PM
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I'd be pretty confused and hurt, but he'll still be my best friend.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Aug. 8, 2015 at 5:14 PM
It happened to us... only it was me who came out of the closet and asked for a divorce.

He was devastated for a long time.

He's a wonderful man, so it was the hardest thing I've ever done but knew it was the right thing to do for both of us.

He stayed single for the last 12 years because he says he has a hard time trusting anyone now. But we remained friends and co-parent our 2 kids wonderfully.

I remarried 6 years ago.
Ninasmom127
by Bronze Member on Aug. 8, 2015 at 5:16 PM
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Yeah, you describe the feeling well lol

Quoting merrysgirls: I'd be shocked since he's so good in the sack haha


N_maricle
by Platinum Member on Aug. 8, 2015 at 5:16 PM
If I found out dh was bi, I wouldn't really care. But he definitely not gay because he loves him some vagina.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Aug. 8, 2015 at 5:17 PM
I'd still love him. He's bi as it is. I would allow him to make the decision on if we would continue to stay married and just see other people. We are polyamorous so it's not a stretch. He is my husband and I love him gay, bi, or straight.
Bumblebutt
by Ruby Member on Aug. 8, 2015 at 5:21 PM

Well that sucks. 3 kids later and you tell me this? 

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