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should I change? update

Anonymous
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DH says I'm mean. He frequently sides with other people.

He says I'm a mean bitch and I himself grudges. Has anyone experienced this?

He hates that I don't open the door for unannounced guests. It bothers him that I won't as much as say hello to his SIL. He thinks I'm mean to my dad.

He's embarassed that I won't associate with his BM for the kids sake etc.

I feel that if I'm such a bitch then I'm doing these folks a favor.

I need the type of MAN who handles his problems and messes himself.


Update

I've decided to change in the sense tht I'm going to avoid any future conflicts. I'll let DH have guest over now as he is working and pushed the mortgage.
Posted by Anonymous on Sep. 25, 2015 at 3:11 PM
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bluebunnybabe
by kid crack dealer on Sep. 25, 2015 at 3:12 PM
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Well, I don't know you so I don't know for sure but from what you've posted, you don't exactly sound nice.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Sep. 25, 2015 at 3:12 PM
Yeah you sound like a bitch. Why won't you talk to anyone? Even if you don't like them, it obviously would make your husband happy.
sheramom4
by Emerald Member on Sep. 25, 2015 at 3:14 PM
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You post this crap all the time. Do the man a favor and go away. Divorce him, have partial custody of your kids and move on. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Sep. 25, 2015 at 3:14 PM
I'm nice. I.had a reason....

I ask everyone to call first. People who don't call are trying to provoke me.

His SIL kept coming by ALL THE DAMN time. He and his brother bareltbdawveach other before.

My dad is an ass.

His BM is a user.

Quoting bluebunnybabe: Well, I don't know you so I don't know for sure but from what you've posted, you don't exactly sound nice.
bluebunnybabe
by kid crack dealer on Sep. 25, 2015 at 3:15 PM
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Well in that case, I'm sure you're just lovely.

Quoting Anonymous 1: I'm nice. I.had a reason....

I ask everyone to call first. People who don't call are trying to provoke me.

His SIL kept coming by ALL THE DAMN time. He and his brother bareltbdawveach other before.

My dad is an ass.

His BM is a user.

Quoting bluebunnybabe: Well, I don't know you so I don't know for sure but from what you've posted, you don't exactly sound nice.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Sep. 25, 2015 at 3:15 PM
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His happiness isn't more important than mine. If I don't want to bother that's my right. I never interfere with him seeing people.

Quoting Anonymous 2: Yeah you sound like a bitch. Why won't you talk to anyone? Even if you don't like them, it obviously would make your husband happy.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Sep. 25, 2015 at 3:16 PM
How should I have handled it?

Quoting bluebunnybabe: Well in that case, I'm sure you're just lovely.

Quoting Anonymous 1: I'm nice. I.had a reason....

I ask everyone to call first. People who don't call are trying to provoke me.

His SIL kept coming by ALL THE DAMN time. He and his brother bareltbdawveach other before.

My dad is an ass.

His BM is a user.

Quoting bluebunnybabe: Well, I don't know you so I don't know for sure but from what you've posted, you don't exactly sound nice.
bluebunnybabe
by kid crack dealer on Sep. 25, 2015 at 3:19 PM
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Handled what? I have no idea who you are or what you're story is. I just know that I'm generally polite to people even if I don't particularly care for them, especially when it's someone my husband has to deal with or is related to. It's part of being married & supporting my husband, just as he supports me.

Quoting Anonymous 1: How should I have handled it?
Quoting bluebunnybabe: Well in that case, I'm sure you're just lovely.
Quoting Anonymous 1: I'm nice. I.had a reason....



I ask everyone to call first. People who don't call are trying to provoke me.



His SIL kept coming by ALL THE DAMN time. He and his brother bareltbdawveach other before.



My dad is an ass.



His BM is a user.
Quoting bluebunnybabe: Well, I don't know you so I don't know for sure but from what you've posted, you don't exactly sound nice.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Sep. 25, 2015 at 3:19 PM
Seriously no one ever has a GOOD way to address these problems.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Sep. 25, 2015 at 3:21 PM
I.politely told them to leave me alone.

You would have no issue with a non blood relative popping up when you Rent homr

Quoting bluebunnybabe: Handled what? I have no idea who you are or what you're story is. I just know that I'm generally polite to people even if I don't particularly care for them, especially when it's someone my husband has to deal with or is related to. It's part of being married & supporting my husband, just as he supports me.

Quoting Anonymous 1: How should I have handled it?
Quoting bluebunnybabe: Well in that case, I'm sure you're just lovely.
Quoting Anonymous 1: I'm nice. I.had a reason....

I ask everyone to call first. People who don't call are trying to provoke me.

His SIL kept coming by ALL THE DAMN time. He and his brother bareltbdawveach other before.

My dad is an ass.

His BM is a user.
Quoting bluebunnybabe: Well, I don't know you so I don't know for sure but from what you've posted, you don't exactly sound nice.
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