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Is it just me or is this a tad f***ed

Anonymous
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Ive been getting really close with this guy. We try to hang out as much as we can. We're not a couple, but we've gotten close, etc. He's a security guard at a couple places and last night he was working at the bar from 9pm-230am. We were talking this moring and he says, man I didnt get to sleep until 5am. Im like why?Didnt you go straight home after work, he goes no, some drunk girl was causing drama so I had to simmer it down etc. He continues to tell me that he offered to drive her home, but she wanted to take her own car, so he followed her home instead. Not only that, but he went inside with her. Stayed only a couple of minutes. He also said a long time ago she went to his house one time and she showed him her tits. He didnt want to have sex with her back then so she left in a flurry and they never talked again. He keeps calling me and telling me that nothing happened blah blah. I actually believe him that they didnt do anything, but why the hell would he 1)follow her and 2)go in her house. For what? 

Im not a fucking idiot, but go ahead and reply about how much they fucked, cuz they didn't. All I want to know is why he would be so nice for someone he calls a dumb bitch. 

I sound like a naive twat saying they didnt fuck, but believe me they didnt. Anyhow carry on. 

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 23, 2016 at 2:40 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 23, 2016 at 2:44 PM
Well, I think you know they did, considering how many times you denied it in your post... but, hey, you're the one that lives with your denial.
Tannaris
by Ruby Member on Jan. 23, 2016 at 2:44 PM
Unless you were there you don't KNOW that they didn't have sex.
They probably did lol
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Spam72
by Emerald Member on Jan. 23, 2016 at 2:46 PM

Classy as always cafemom

LilysMama719
by Emmy on Jan. 23, 2016 at 2:47 PM
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If you're not a couple, he's free to do as he pleases and he doesn't have to explain it to you.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 23, 2016 at 2:47 PM

Boring responses, nope they didnt.

All I want to know is why the hell would he 1)follow her and 2)go in her house.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 23, 2016 at 2:49 PM

That's very true. So it's not fucked up then, is that what you're saying?

Quoting LilysMama719: If you're not a couple, he's free to do as he pleases and he doesn't have to explain it to you.


Missdameanor
by on Jan. 23, 2016 at 2:49 PM
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I've got nothing...so good luck! =)
justinnaimee
by Ruby Member on Jan. 23, 2016 at 2:49 PM
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I can't get past him letting a drunk girl drive home and NOT calling the cops.
LilysMama719
by Emmy on Jan. 23, 2016 at 2:50 PM
Yes, but if you were a couple it would be very messed up.

Quoting Anonymous 1:

That's very true. So it's not fucked up then, is that what you're saying?

Quoting LilysMama719: If you're not a couple, he's free to do as he pleases and he doesn't have to explain it to you.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 23, 2016 at 2:50 PM
I'm curious how you just *know* they didn't fuck.
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