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Would you divorce you husband if...

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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You were facing the possibility of heart surgery, and your husband refused to take time off work to be there DURING THE SURGERY

His explanation is theres nothing HE can do for you at that time, and he has to make money, and can't risk losing his job.

Would you divorce?
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 23, 2016 at 3:54 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 23, 2016 at 3:55 PM
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No.
honey80
by Silver Member on Jan. 23, 2016 at 3:56 PM
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No. He still has to make sure everyone is being provided for
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 23, 2016 at 3:56 PM
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MOM-RN
by on Jan. 23, 2016 at 3:57 PM
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No. I would talk to him about it and if he didn't feel that he could handle being at the hospital then I would find someone who could. 

If it meant DH losing his job I wouldn't want him to come either. 

Not everyone handles these things the same way. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 23, 2016 at 3:57 PM
So you believe that a paycheck is more important than comforting your spouse?

Quoting honey80: No. He still has to make sure everyone is being provided for
MrsDavidB25
by Stacey on Jan. 23, 2016 at 3:58 PM
No. I would ask my mom to sit with me.
RachelBy
by Gold Member on Jan. 23, 2016 at 3:58 PM
No
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 23, 2016 at 3:58 PM
I had surgery before I split.....and I wanted my ex to be there when I woke up.
MissTuree
by Platinum Member on Jan. 23, 2016 at 3:59 PM
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Wait. Someone would divorce over this?! Really?

Fight probably, but divorce?

I hate that I've been criticized for never being married but then people talk about divorcing over the most random stuff.

Brain. Does. Not. Compute.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jan. 23, 2016 at 3:59 PM
Mmmmmm
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