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When should you tell someone?

Anonymous
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My friend has been dating this man for just over a month and during that time she has always worn pants. Obviously because it's winter...

He just found out that she's missing a leg and said that's something she should have said at the beginning.

When would you mention it?
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 31, 2016 at 1:05 PM
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Vesta20
by Platinum Member on Jan. 31, 2016 at 1:06 PM
Ummm probably before the first date.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 31, 2016 at 1:07 PM
Why

Quoting Vesta20: Ummm probably before the first date.
Seagodess
by Emerald Member on Jan. 31, 2016 at 1:07 PM

Within the first couple dates. If they talked regularly before going out, then during that time.

KylesWifey
by Go HAWKS!!!! on Jan. 31, 2016 at 1:07 PM
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I think its stupid, a missing leg?....herpies, murder, those things are acceptable things to get upset about if your date doesn't tell you.....but a missing leg?....she can do better.
nellyoleson
by Ruby Member on Jan. 31, 2016 at 1:08 PM
I think she needs to find a new guy.
Hanab818
by ThePonds on Jan. 31, 2016 at 1:08 PM
The first date.
Vesta20
by Platinum Member on Jan. 31, 2016 at 1:09 PM
Because it's not like that's something that he's not going to notice. If someone didn't wanna date me for a superficial reason like that I'd rather them back out before any emotions get involved.

Quoting Anonymous 1: Why
Quoting Vesta20: Ummm probably before the first date.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 31, 2016 at 1:16 PM
Right it's pretty terrible to get mad at

Quoting KylesWifey: I think its stupid, a missing leg?....herpies, murder, those things are acceptable things to get upset about if your date doesn't tell you.....but a missing leg?....she can do better.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 31, 2016 at 1:18 PM
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Very very early on. It's just something that should have been mentioned.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 31, 2016 at 1:21 PM
It's not like she needs help doing things. She's not handicapped in any way. Not a burden

Quoting Anonymous 2: Very very early on. It's just something that should have been mentioned.
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