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I want to be like family with my ex husband

Anonymous
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But he is nasty towards me. We had a horrible and abusive marriage. I want him to be like a brother and his wife like a sister, their kids like a niece. The problem is he has always hated me. Even when we were together he hated me. I have always seen sexual partners as more of a brotherly, platonic thing than whatever people in relationships feel. Should I just let it go? Its impossible to co-parent with him. If he isn't in control, then he doesn't want anything to do with the kids we share together. Last time he kidnapped them and it took a lot for me to find them and get them back. He doesn't use his supervised visitations either because he said if he can't have them he doesn't want to see them.
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 31, 2016 at 6:31 PM
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Uzma_mom_of_2
by Silver Member on Jan. 31, 2016 at 10:07 PM
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Sexual feelings toward someone you consider brotherly?

You need some professional help.

Edit: Have you seriously posted bump 600 times?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jan. 31, 2016 at 10:08 PM
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I suggest therapy.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Jan. 31, 2016 at 10:09 PM

why would you want someone around like that? Are you nuts?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 31, 2016 at 10:09 PM
I see sex as an object. I feel nothing in my heart, its all physical. I always become like a sister with my sex partners.

Quoting Uzma_mom_of_2: Sexual feelings toward someone you consider brotherly?

You need some professional help.

Edit: Have you seriously posted bump 600 times?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 31, 2016 at 10:09 PM
Why?

Quoting Anonymous 4: I suggest therapy.
Uzma_mom_of_2
by Silver Member on Jan. 31, 2016 at 10:10 PM
You need help. Like seriously, professional help.



Quoting Anonymous 1: I see sex as an object. I feel nothing in my heart, its all physical. I always become like a sister with my sex partners.

Quoting Uzma_mom_of_2: Sexual feelings toward someone you consider brotherly?

You need some professional help.

Edit: Have you seriously posted bump 600 times?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 31, 2016 at 10:10 PM
That's what my family says. Its best he chooses not to be around.

Quoting Anonymous 5:

why would you want someone around like that? Are you nuts?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 31, 2016 at 10:12 PM
Never saw a problem with it. Will make sure to tell my psych about it though.

Quoting Uzma_mom_of_2: You need help. Like seriously, professional help.



Quoting Anonymous 1: I see sex as an object. I feel nothing in my heart, its all physical. I always become like a sister with my sex partners.

Quoting Uzma_mom_of_2: Sexual feelings toward someone you consider brotherly?

You need some professional help.

Edit: Have you seriously posted bump 600 times?
two4one
by Ruby Member on Jan. 31, 2016 at 10:14 PM
There is something very wrong with you.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 31, 2016 at 10:18 PM
Why do you say that? Cause I bumped the post?

Quoting two4one: There is something very wrong with you.
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