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My 11 yr daughter was exposed to porn Fri night...ugh...

Posted by on Jan. 31, 2016 at 10:55 PM
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I had my kids fri night and she had her twin BFFs stay the night who are also 11. They mostly stayed in my daughers room and I tried to keep my son out of there. i just found out tonight that my daughter told Dad that one of the twins showed her porn on her ipad. My DD covered it up with her hand and told her she didnt want to watch it anymore. I had no idea. The girls were picked up Sat am and the kids went with their dad.

I just got a call from my ex and kind of a nasty themed text from the girls mom and they say my daughter found the porn. My daughter is immature, raised very sheltered and conservative, and has never seen porn until fri night . She only started seeing pg-13 wit the twins and the twins Dad takes them to pg-13 (with my permissions).

So the twins mom wants some seperation. we all seem to be blaming each other, I was non accusatory in my return text and just said what my daughter said, and that regardless of whos tablet the porn came from, I dont want it to happen again. The twins mom claim they have parental controls and there is no porn in the history.According to my daughter the one twin deleted the history.

the girls mom just sent me a rude text..saying maybe my ex needs to shut the door when his gf stays the night. WTF? They just started dating and my ex is a conservative catholic and he actually informed me him and his GF have not been sexual yet and I think she only stayed over once with her young daughter and they slept downstairs in the spare bedroom,. I just called my ex and i am curious why their mom would make a rude comment to me like that. One fo the twins deleted the porn and then told my daughter " not even the governement can find it". So I guess we need to seperate the girls for a little bit but the texts their mother sent t me were rude...and Im so annoyed at all of this and the 3 girls were best friends and will be transistioning to junior high together, now the whole friendship is at risk, i just texted back and said sorry that it has come to this and Im not mad at any of the girls, I just dont want this to happen again,

I feel like shit and my nerves are bothering me and my daughter is upset. I just texted back saying I hope we can move past this and maybe we can all get together and discuss it. Texting is really doing anyone any good.

by on Jan. 31, 2016 at 10:55 PM
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thefiregoddess
by MotherDucker on Jan. 31, 2016 at 10:56 PM
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At 11 I was already watching porn and that was decades ago.

I have nothing else to contribute to that.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Jan. 31, 2016 at 10:57 PM
Who gives.a shit I was sneaking and watching porn since I was 10 ...its natural. ..I even stole my mom's sex books ...I would masturbate to them and put them back exactly where I found them.
discordianchica
by on Jan. 31, 2016 at 10:58 PM
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You are all over reacting in my opinion. This is about the age kids will start checking this stuff out. Time to have an open dialogue with your child.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 31, 2016 at 10:59 PM
Tell the twins mom to get a keylogger of sometype on that iPad and shed be seeing everything thats been typed and erased. The girls don't need to know of it and walllah
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 31, 2016 at 10:59 PM
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Op run you're in the wrong place for sensible advice
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jan. 31, 2016 at 10:59 PM
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Gross. At 11, I didn't even know what porn was and I was still playing with dolls and stuffed toys.

Quoting thefiregoddess: At 11 I was already watching porn and that was decades ago.

I have nothing else to contribute to that.
spooky415
by Emerald Member on Jan. 31, 2016 at 11:00 PM
This is all ridiculous.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Jan. 31, 2016 at 11:00 PM
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Btw..I caught my 10 year old dd looking at Asian lesbian porn...and I wanted to die butI remembered I was llooking at porn at that age so I handled it well...I still dont know why she was looking at asian porn though...omg ..like why...ill never know because I sure as hell aint asking if she prefers Ming lee to becky
CherrieFaeries
by Alice In Heathenland on Jan. 31, 2016 at 11:01 PM
Wow
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Jan. 31, 2016 at 11:02 PM
So was I....I was making them "do it" ....I also made my barbies rub crotches when they would "do it" at that age
Quoting Anonymous 4: Gross. At 11, I didn't even know what porn was and I was still playing with dolls and stuffed toys.
Quoting thefiregoddess: At 11 I was already watching porn and that was decades ago.

I have nothing else to contribute to that.
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