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Please explain dh's behavior to me

Anonymous
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Sex has gone from a few times a week to once every few weeks. The last time really doesn't even count because he came the minute I touched him there. Not normal for him.

He is always sulking about something. Often petty things.

We no longer have meaningful conversation.

He is buying lots of new clothes.

He changed his hair.

Please explain this to me.
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 6, 2016 at 7:29 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 6, 2016 at 7:30 PM
Depression and/or midlife crisis.
KtyKat757
by Bronze Member on Feb. 6, 2016 at 7:31 PM
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Break out the P.I. handbook

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 6, 2016 at 7:31 PM

How old is he?

It sounds like he maybe interested in getting someone to pay more attention to him, and it's not necessarily you.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Feb. 6, 2016 at 7:36 PM

Midlife crisis/depression?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 6, 2016 at 7:37 PM
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Quoting Anonymous 3:

How old is he?

It sounds like he maybe interested in getting someone to pay more attention to him, and it's not necessarily you.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 6, 2016 at 7:44 PM
Bump
SleepingBeautee
by Gold Member on Feb. 6, 2016 at 7:45 PM
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Sounds like he is having an affair.

jeannie39
by Gold Member on Feb. 6, 2016 at 7:46 PM
If he got off as soon as you touched him, he's not getting sex somewhere else. Not to say he doesn't want to, though. But I doubt it. If he was interested in someone else, he probably wouldn't even get turned on with you.

He may be depressed or just trying to get your attention. Maybe he wants to improve himself so your sex life will pick back up. Does he have low self esteem? He may think you're not attracted to him and that's why you're not having sex with him.

It's just a guess, its hard to tell with men sometimes.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Feb. 6, 2016 at 7:46 PM
Mine too!!! Except mine doesn't shower as regularly as I wish, and he doesn't buy new clothes, so I don't really care, but he does go on Facebook and look at half naked females whom he used to talk to, although I don't care anymore they can do everything for him. I'm just here for my daughters hoping to get a job soon to save up...
bigmouthbabe
by on Feb. 6, 2016 at 7:48 PM
Signs of an affair.
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