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Some 19 year old just showed up on our door step...

Anonymous
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With a baby. She said the child, a little girl about a year or so old, was our son's child.

She said that she can't afford to support the child anymore and she needs for Our son to help. Apparently the child has several health problems that are quite costly.

Our son is a 37 year old married father of 3.

We gave her money to stay in a hotel for the next few days and requested a DNA test proving the child is our son's.

After that we are lost.

What would you do?

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Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 13, 2016 at 7:10 PM
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LaughCryLive
by Emerald Member on Mar. 13, 2016 at 7:12 PM
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Put her in touch with social services so they can go after him for child support.
Mazie0723
by Ruby Member on Mar. 13, 2016 at 7:12 PM
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Nothing more until it's confirmed. Then I'd send her to my kids door step.
corticosteroid
by on Mar. 13, 2016 at 7:13 PM
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Give the guy a call, for starters, and start by asking where the chick got your address.

Danesmommy1
by Grammar Enthusiast on Mar. 13, 2016 at 7:13 PM
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Ring up DS super quick and ask WTF?? I think the hotel room was a nice gesture from y'all while awaiting DNA results.

If it was my DS's kid, I'd kick his ass into paying child support and getting the baby onto his medical insurance.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 13, 2016 at 7:13 PM
I don't think I could just betray my child that way.

Quoting LaughCryLive: Put her in touch with social services so they can go after him for child support.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 13, 2016 at 7:13 PM
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What kind of ass is your son that he hasn't already dealt with this?
chicknabiscuit
by Bronze Member on Mar. 13, 2016 at 7:14 PM
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Send her to your son's?
He is a grown man.
notjstasocermom
by Sapphire Member on Mar. 13, 2016 at 7:14 PM
What does he say?
Barlowgirl125
by Gold Member on Mar. 13, 2016 at 7:14 PM
Wow, I don't know what I'd do. Probably what you've done so far. Call your son and talk to him about it and keep us updated.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 13, 2016 at 7:14 PM
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She said it was the contact address that he gave her. She thought it was his house.

Quoting corticosteroid:

Give the guy a call, for starters, and start by asking where the chick got your address.

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