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How to deal with SD & BM...

Anonymous
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I've been married 5 years. I have a SD 17 & SS 14. I have a great relationship with SS & his BM. No issues at all. He is here every weekend Friday 3pm-Monday when dropped off at school. SD is here fri-fri week on week off. All was well in the beginning with SD & her BM. After the 1st 2 years everything started going downhill. Its Now rock bottom. At first it was just BM. Now SD has joined in. SD has turned into her mother, disrespectful & ungreatful. I don't know how to deal with SD in my home. DH has tried everything, it does not work. I'm tired of being disrespected in front of my children. I keep telling myself one more year & she'll be 18..but that one year isn't the end of it. She's won't be finished high school until 19. Maybe it will be better when she moves out..I hate thinking this way.
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 13, 2016 at 7:18 PM
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corticosteroid
by Sapphire Member on Mar. 13, 2016 at 7:20 PM

How is she disrespecting you?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 13, 2016 at 7:23 PM
You married a guy with 2 baby mamas, and wonder why his kids are disrespectful? I think their dad sleeping around, putting his dick into anything female, and no consistent schedule will do it.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 13, 2016 at 7:28 PM
There's not one day she doesn't say things about me or to me. She tells me she hates me. That I turned her father against her & her mother. She will say my food sucks & that I'm trying to poison her. She has stole from me on numerous occasions. I have to keep my toothbrush & bath poof in my room, she has stuck them in the toilet before. She will call me cheap & that her mother would never buy some of the things I do. I mean the list goes on. Everyday.

Quoting corticosteroid:

How is she disrespecting you?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 13, 2016 at 7:31 PM
Lmao.

Quoting Anonymous 2: You married a guy with 2 baby mamas, and wonder why his kids are disrespectful? I think their dad sleeping around, putting his dick into anything female, and no consistent schedule will do it.
corticosteroid
by Sapphire Member on Mar. 13, 2016 at 7:45 PM

Send her back to her mother then.

Quoting Anonymous 1: There's not one day she doesn't say things about me or to me. She tells me she hates me. That I turned her father against her & her mother. She will say my food sucks & that I'm trying to poison her. She has stole from me on numerous occasions. I have to keep my toothbrush & bath poof in my room, she has stuck them in the toilet before. She will call me cheap & that her mother would never buy some of the things I do. I mean the list goes on. Everyday.
Quoting corticosteroid:

How is she disrespecting you?


Ted1242
by I'm listening. on Mar. 13, 2016 at 7:48 PM
Right? Fuck all that.

Quoting corticosteroid:

Send her back to her mother then.

Quoting Anonymous 1: There's not one day she doesn't say things about me or to me. She tells me she hates me. That I turned her father against her & her mother. She will say my food sucks & that I'm trying to poison her. She has stole from me on numerous occasions. I have to keep my toothbrush & bath poof in my room, she has stuck them in the toilet before. She will call me cheap & that her mother would never buy some of the things I do. I mean the list goes on. Everyday.

Quoting corticosteroid:

How is she disrespecting you?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 13, 2016 at 7:51 PM
DH does not want to. He said if he sends his daughter away that will be the end of their relationship. I mean her & BM call him a deadbeat all the time cuz he won't give them $ when they want. Which is crazy bcuz she is here half her time. Idk if he is just holding on to what isn't there anymore or what.

Quoting corticosteroid:

Send her back to her mother then.

Quoting Anonymous 1: There's not one day she doesn't say things about me or to me. She tells me she hates me. That I turned her father against her & her mother. She will say my food sucks & that I'm trying to poison her. She has stole from me on numerous occasions. I have to keep my toothbrush & bath poof in my room, she has stuck them in the toilet before. She will call me cheap & that her mother would never buy some of the things I do. I mean the list goes on. Everyday.

Quoting corticosteroid:

How is she disrespecting you?

jabs54
by Ruby Member on Mar. 13, 2016 at 7:53 PM

If she hates coming over she is old enough to choose not to come. If she is so disrespectful I think I would just insist my dh spend time with his dd some place else.  They can go out to eat every week or something.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 13, 2016 at 7:54 PM
DH does not want to. He is scared of ruining his relationship with his DD. But I can't take it anymore. If I tell him she has to leave its like I'm making him chose between us.

Quoting Ted1242: Right? Fuck all that.

Quoting corticosteroid:

Send her back to her mother then.

Quoting Anonymous 1: There's not one day she doesn't say things about me or to me. She tells me she hates me. That I turned her father against her & her mother. She will say my food sucks & that I'm trying to poison her. She has stole from me on numerous occasions. I have to keep my toothbrush & bath poof in my room, she has stuck them in the toilet before. She will call me cheap & that her mother would never buy some of the things I do. I mean the list goes on. Everyday.

Quoting corticosteroid:

How is she disrespecting you?

corticosteroid
by Sapphire Member on Mar. 13, 2016 at 7:55 PM

Secretly record your stepdaughter's shenanigans and send your husband the recording with the message "I'll be ordering room service and porn at an undisclosed hotel until you fix this shit.  Enjoy masturbating, love Wife."

Quoting Anonymous 1: DH does not want to. He said if he sends his daughter away that will be the end of their relationship. I mean her & BM call him a deadbeat all the time cuz he won't give them $ when they want. Which is crazy bcuz she is here half her time. Idk if he is just holding on to what isn't there anymore or what.
Quoting corticosteroid:

Send her back to her mother then.

Quoting Anonymous 1: There's not one day she doesn't say things about me or to me. She tells me she hates me. That I turned her father against her & her mother. She will say my food sucks & that I'm trying to poison her. She has stole from me on numerous occasions. I have to keep my toothbrush & bath poof in my room, she has stuck them in the toilet before. She will call me cheap & that her mother would never buy some of the things I do. I mean the list goes on. Everyday.
Quoting corticosteroid:

How is she disrespecting you?



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