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My husband and I have been having marital problems for quite some time now. In short, he has an anger problem, is emotionally detached from me and the kids and he is too harsh with them. He doesn't accept responsibility for any wrong doings, and blames me entirely for our problems. Ex: "If you weren't such a bitch, we would be fine." If I question him, or dare to talk about how I'm feeling he shuts me down and runs the other way. I told him last year in therapy to stop calling me names. (When we argue) He still has no problem calling me a whore, slut and tells me to fuck off in front of the kids. Last night he did just that, and then grabbed his wedding band and threw it in the garbage. If that wasn't enough, he took a picture of it and sent it to me in a text message. He wanted to make sure I saw it in there. I didn't expect him to come home after work, because he said he was leaving me. He came home at normal time and hasn't said anything to me except "Need me to make dinner?" I don't know how I am going to get through this. I have no family to stay with and have been a stay at home mom for almost 8 years. I can't stay with him but I'm so scared of the unknown. He has turned my life into a nightmare.
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 30, 2016 at 4:28 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 30, 2016 at 4:32 PM
You should be able to collect alimony and child support. Your kids shouldn't be around this type of abuse
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 30, 2016 at 4:33 PM
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I guess you have to get a job now and stop depending on him. You should have had an exit plan in place a while ago. Time to get one asap.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Mar. 30, 2016 at 4:33 PM
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Record his tantrums and post them and his pathetic pic text he sent to you to social media. If he's so impressed by and pleased with himself and finds nothing wrong with it, surely he'd appreciate everyone he knows seeing him in flawless action.

Seriously, these ass wipes are only legends in their own minds. He knows he's a nothing; a zero. He only jumps bad to you because he knows you and the kids are the only ones he has power over, which he craves because he knows he's a nobody.

Shine a big, bright light on him. I'm so sick of these chest thumping, abusive, self absorbed men getting away with bullying their families.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Mar. 30, 2016 at 4:34 PM
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Wow. Call a women's shelter
Manic_Sinner
by 5/27/2018🤰🏽 on Mar. 30, 2016 at 4:35 PM
Ugh I'm sorry. Things will be ok though. You would be better off without him and your kids too. Where there's a will there's a way.
Oliviasmom72
by Gold Member on Mar. 30, 2016 at 4:36 PM

Your husband is a jerk. Time to develop an exit plan. Start working at least part time and saving money.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Mar. 30, 2016 at 4:38 PM

Sounds a lot like my DH...I do have a job, but no where to go. Last night I took my kids to dance, and he said he was going to a local bar with a friend for "taco tuesday and a couple drinks" anywho, he came home high last night.  I ignored it.  This morning I found a receipt from the casino so I asked him about it and he lied at first then admitted that he lied to me about where he was.  He then called me a stupid bitch several times in front of our kids...He ended up texting me and saying sorry, but I'm so over it.  He's always an ass, says sorry, then continues to do it. I wish I was rich so I could get a lawyer and ring his ass dry.

How old are your kids?

*HUGS*

PogoPalOj
by on Mar. 30, 2016 at 4:39 PM

You are in an abusive relationship.  Get that ring out of the trash and pawn it.  Go to a shelter with your kids.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Mar. 30, 2016 at 4:43 PM
Leave Humberto.
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by Anonymous 8 on Mar. 30, 2016 at 4:44 PM
This is why you should never depend on a man. Sorry you're going through this.
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