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We're getting a divorce because he spanked my daughter

Anonymous
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I have been married to my husband for 6 months. I have a 15 year old daughter and he has twin 16 year old daughters. Well my 15 year old drove my car without anyone there. (She has a permit.) When she got back from driving the car only my stbx was home. He lost it on her. Words were exchanged and she called him a fucking asshole.

That was the last straw for him. He went and got his belt and beat her with it. He has no regrets. I am not going to go overboard and press charges, but I definitely will not stay with him. That is abuse. If he were apologetic and swore to never do it again I would try to work it out, but that's not the case.
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 30, 2016 at 9:04 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 30, 2016 at 9:05 PM
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Why did you not call the police? 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 30, 2016 at 9:06 PM
I'm not going to press charges.

Quoting Anonymous 2:

Why did you not call the police? 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 30, 2016 at 9:07 PM
I would call the police.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Mar. 30, 2016 at 9:07 PM
He whipped her with a belt. File charges.
MrsViau
by PinkGiraffe on Mar. 30, 2016 at 9:07 PM
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Uh huh. Sure.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Mar. 30, 2016 at 9:08 PM
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Him beating her with her with a belt would be no different than beating you with a belt. Would you honestly forgive that if he apologized? I sure as well wouldn't.
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mama_danetta
by She's so heavy on Mar. 30, 2016 at 9:08 PM
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I'd press charges on him. No one fucking beats my child!
sheramom4
by Emerald Member on Mar. 30, 2016 at 9:08 PM

What was your DD's punishment for stealing the car? She can't drive with just a permit without an adult in the vehicle. 

Despite all of that your husband was very very wrong and I would press charges. My child would not be allowed to get her license until she was 18 and would be grounded for the remainder of the school year. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Mar. 30, 2016 at 9:08 PM
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I wouldn't have beat her but she wouldn't have gotten a license til she was 18 and would be grounded from everything for 6 months probably.  You need to get your kid in check.  That is against the law what she did.  

KaylinC03
by Ruby Member on Mar. 30, 2016 at 9:08 PM
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I find it creepy and ridiculous there have been so many posts about spanking teenagers lately.
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