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pretend she doesnt exist

Posted by on Apr. 8, 2016 at 12:40 AM
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My ex husbands New fiance has serious jealousy issues. She will not let him have any contact with me except through her first. The only reason we talk is because I am pregnant with his baby. My new plan is to be pretend she doesn't even exist. Is that childish?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Apr. 8, 2016 at 12:41 AM
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You have no business with her, just him. Ignore her.
However, she might be your kid's step mom.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 8, 2016 at 12:42 AM

you just love all the negativity & drama of your situation,., don't you

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Apr. 8, 2016 at 12:45 AM
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Are you the new "Pilots Wife?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Apr. 8, 2016 at 12:46 AM
So he's putting a ring on her hand before your child's even born? I'm not judging the situation, just wanting to know more in depth.

Unfortunately for her, you don't have to talk to her, AT ALL.

I'd kindly remind her she has no rights. And by kindly I mean by telling her that if she does one more thing to piss you off, you will file a no contact order.
KendallsMommee
by Spoiled SAHM on Apr. 8, 2016 at 12:48 AM
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He moved on awfully fast...
xoch86
by Platinum Member on Apr. 8, 2016 at 12:49 AM
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Well, she will have fun with that in court.. I would make sure in The CO, that she is to have no contact with you.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Apr. 8, 2016 at 12:51 AM
Quoting Anonymous 3: Are you the new "Pilots Wife?




God,I hope not!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Apr. 8, 2016 at 12:54 AM
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Since they're not married she's nobody. She'll be a nobody to your child. With the way she's acting I would tell him no overnight visits. She'll probably be jealous and take it out on the child.
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by Petty Princess on Apr. 8, 2016 at 12:54 AM

Oh...oh my. Well that can only last for so long. I mean, she is going to be his wife one day.

Littlebunnyfufu
by Gold Member on Apr. 8, 2016 at 12:56 AM
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I don't think it's childish as long as you clearly state your intention and reasoning. Such as "I'm sorry, but I'm only going to speak with ex. I have nothing to discuss with you as I'm not in anyway involved with you."

If she has a fit or he doesn't man up and deal with you directly I say start getting your ducks in a row to set up custody with a co now and have it stipulate that she is not to have contact with you.
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