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I have only stayed because I thought he was a good father and now I am ready to leave!

Anonymous
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I just dont trust my husband to be a good father anymore.  He has absolutely no patience with the kids anymore or even our 1 yr old for that matter.  I get that parenting can be difficult and it really is true about how little sleep you get after you have kids, but still all his yelling and threats of violence are just too much to bear.  I came froma dysfunctional family and am a child of divorce and didnt want that for my kids, but now I think it just would be better for all of us if we divorced.  They need some happiness and so do I!


Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 8, 2016 at 2:29 AM
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left.drowning
by Fix Me on Apr. 8, 2016 at 2:34 AM
Leave. You will be happier.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 8, 2016 at 2:35 AM
I'm sorry :( prayers for you all.
geeez
by Baroness on Apr. 8, 2016 at 4:09 AM
You and your child do not deserve that type of environment. Your choice of leaving is the right thing to do...
eadyT
by on Apr. 8, 2016 at 4:13 AM
Leave. It's just not worth it.
Hugs and good luck.
Littlebunnyfufu
by Platinum Member on Apr. 8, 2016 at 4:13 AM

Threats of violence? Yeah, time to go, that's not healthy for anyone. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Apr. 8, 2016 at 4:25 AM

Leave, never stay (or get married) "for the kid/kids"

I'm a child of divorce, my parents married BECAUSE of me (though they never said) and my mother was miserable the whole 5 years they were married. 

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