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Would kick a friend out of your place because of this ? non smoker house

Anonymous
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I went to take my 5 year old to his friends ( 5 minutes away ) and I had a friend in my apartment connecting a second tv to our cable .
When I came back , the house smelled like cigarettes
It's a humid day and I had all windows open so if he went outside to smoke , all the smoke came inside . i even had clean clothes hanging outside

by outside I mean a balcony...not a yard...
I was so mad that I asked him to leave
This week I didn't work since Tuesday as I was out on voice rest because of frequent throat issues and he knew very well about all this
I had to ask him to leave
Lock the main door but leave all windows open to air and I set the air purifier
Would you have kicked a friend out ?
Maybe if it wasn't because of my throat issue , I would have just told him I was mad but this was bad
Did I over react ?
He did text back saying he was sorry and that he was never inconsiderate


EDIT

this is what I meant by outside:

it is a long balcony that connects the 3 windows: 2 rooms and living roomand I don't thik he closed a singleone since I opened the door and the smell killed me...I have not worked since Tuesday due to recurrent throat issues

I can understand if it happens when I am healthy but timing was certainly bad

Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 8, 2016 at 9:36 PM
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by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 8, 2016 at 9:37 PM
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by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 8, 2016 at 9:37 PM
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by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 8, 2016 at 9:48 PM
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by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 8, 2016 at 9:48 PM
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mommyof11050307
by Ruby Member on Apr. 8, 2016 at 9:50 PM
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If he went outside to smoke no I wouldn't have kicked him out. My husband smokes outside and if I have my windows open it comes in. I close my windows around the back patio when he smokes.
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dragonborn
by Wonderstruck on Apr. 8, 2016 at 9:50 PM
So he smoked outside? I think you overreacted.
Rigby229
by on Apr. 8, 2016 at 9:51 PM
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No it wouldn't have been worth it to me. I'd just been hey do me a favor next time and walk a little further outside next time.
Kenre
by Ruby Member on Apr. 8, 2016 at 9:53 PM
He didn't think about the wind. He didn't try to hurt you. I'm sorry you are sick.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 8, 2016 at 9:54 PM
I fucking hate smoking. Especially callous ignorant smokers. He needs to be aware of the health problems his habit can cause or exacerbate.
Danesmommy1
by Grammar Enthusiast on Apr. 8, 2016 at 9:54 PM
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For smoking outside? Lol, no.
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