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My ex husband accuses me of having a boyfriend every time I see him

Anonymous
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Let me start off by saying that he and I get along great. He is remarried and his wife is a doll. He struggles with addiction and she is just an angel who is so loving and helpful with our kids.

Everytime we meet to drop off/ pick up kids, We will talk about our plans. For example, I want to take the kids to a festival and I have plans Saturday with friends, so can we switch Friday for Saturday or whatever. We are really lax on visitation and just kind of work it up how it works best for us.

Anyway, anytime I say anything about my plans he asks if it's plans with a boyfriend. His wife always tells him to stop asking me that, but it never fails. He constantly accuses me of having one even though I dont. Shouldnt he be over it by now? Considering he's remarried??!
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 11, 2016 at 10:31 AM
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kristinm87
by Ruby Member on Apr. 11, 2016 at 10:38 AM
Why is he so interested?? You're divorced and he's remarried. Maybe he needs some counseling. Maybe he just needs to mind his own beeswax.
sammichmaker
by soup sandwich on Apr. 11, 2016 at 10:40 AM
Sounds like he still loves you. Who filed for divorce?
corticosteroid
by Sapphire Member on Apr. 11, 2016 at 10:41 AM

Maybe he just wants to know who is going to be around the kids?

Iseeyoutrolling
by on Apr. 11, 2016 at 10:41 AM
My ex husband does this as well! Annoying! Except he has a pregnant fiance...
Melissa_4
by Navy Mom on Apr. 11, 2016 at 10:43 AM

The next time he says that, tell him "What if I did?  It's none of your business, and you are married.  I'm entitled to have a personal life too."

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 11, 2016 at 10:46 AM
Sounds like he still has feelings for you.
Pink.Frosting
by Ruby Member on Apr. 11, 2016 at 10:46 AM

He isn't in a position to accuse you of anything.  He doesn't get a say or an opinion.  And if you did have a boyfriend it would be perfectly within your rights.  You need to tell him that.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 11, 2016 at 10:46 AM
I did

Quoting sammichmaker: Sounds like he still loves you. Who filed for divorce?
TheLadyAmalthea
by Platinum Member on Apr. 11, 2016 at 10:46 AM
That's weird. He's married again, your relationship is over, why would it matter if you have a bf? What would he do if you did?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 11, 2016 at 10:47 AM
I think that's part of it.

Quoting corticosteroid:

Maybe he just wants to know who is going to be around the kids?

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