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Would you divorce over this?

Anonymous
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DH goes behind your back and gets a vasectomy. You still want more kids.

Divorce or work through it?
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 11, 2016 at 12:00 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 11, 2016 at 12:01 PM
Probably
bigmouthbabe
by on Apr. 11, 2016 at 12:02 PM
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That's pretty bad. Would need more info.
corticosteroid
by Sapphire Member on Apr. 11, 2016 at 12:02 PM

Work through it.  We can always adopt.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Apr. 11, 2016 at 12:03 PM

I don't know... did DH make it clear he didn't want more kids?

CorpCityGrl
by Ruby Member on Apr. 11, 2016 at 12:03 PM

I don't know if I'd divorce but I would be really pissed if he didn't discuss it with me first. That's a huge decision to make.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Apr. 11, 2016 at 12:04 PM
How many kids do we have? How many did we discuss having? Are there known health risks involved with more pregnancies?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Apr. 11, 2016 at 12:05 PM

Divorce. That along with cheating are deal breakers for me. 
Also, children is something that we discussed before getting into a relationship. If we didn't agree on a number or having them then, I would have moved on.  

Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Apr. 11, 2016 at 12:06 PM
If he did I would be more pissed off and he would be sleeping on the couch. Plus we could always adopt or foster kids.

But I would say he can get it versed but it's thousands of dollars though.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Apr. 11, 2016 at 12:06 PM
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There is way more going on in that relationship for him to do that secretly.

Divorce immediately? No. Serious work to fix the issues? Of course. Divorce may be the end result.
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by Anonymous 8 on Apr. 11, 2016 at 12:09 PM

I've been told in my state a wife has to sign off for the procedure.  DH was told this by guys at work who've had it done. 

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