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She wants to call him daddy

Anonymous
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I've been dating my fiancé for about 3 years now. My dd and him have an amazing bond and she's been asking recently if he will be her new daddy and if she can call him daddy. We told her we'd talk about it and let her know. He's been the only father figure in her life for the past 3 years. (Her bio dad is in jail after nearly killing me). Do you ladies think she should call him daddy? He said he'd love it. Idk why I feel hesitant.
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 11, 2016 at 1:20 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 11, 2016 at 1:22 PM
You don't really say anything about how YOU feel about him. Do you have hesitations about your relationship with him?
MixedCooke
by Ruby Member on Apr. 11, 2016 at 1:22 PM
Yes she should. Donating sperm doesn't mean he is a father. Trying to kill you is more reason for her not to acknowledge him as her father. Let her call him Daddy if he is okay with it.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Apr. 11, 2016 at 1:23 PM
When are you marrying your fiance?
JmooseP
by on Apr. 11, 2016 at 1:23 PM

It is her choice who she calls daddy. Dont take that away from her. 

blue-heart
by Ruby Member on Apr. 11, 2016 at 1:24 PM
If she wants to let her. Her bio dad sounds like a pos. Maybe even let him adopt her.
fullxbusymom
by Sapphire Member on Apr. 11, 2016 at 1:25 PM

Yes, I see no reason not too in this case.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 11, 2016 at 1:27 PM
No I love him so much. He's a great guy. Treats us both wonderfully and would do anything for us.

Quoting Anonymous 2: You don't really say anything about how YOU feel about him. Do you have hesitations about your relationship with him?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 11, 2016 at 1:27 PM
October.

Quoting Anonymous 3: When are you marrying your fiance?
MinnieBooboo17
by LauraBelle on Apr. 11, 2016 at 1:27 PM
My question is why you feel hesitant. I say she can. If it bothers you maybe she can call him daddy (insert name here)
ResidentRedhead
by Platinum Member on Apr. 11, 2016 at 1:29 PM
U wouldn't let that happen unless my children were legally adopted by a man.
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