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My dh blames my parents

Anonymous
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My dh blames my parents for being raped by a man and molested by a friends uncle. They worked and they didn't discipline. i blame myself for the rape. I got drunk at a party and woke up named next to a guy. Older than me. I got molested by my best friends uncle. I don't believe it's my parents fault.
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 11, 2016 at 9:47 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 11, 2016 at 9:48 PM
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mommy2boys03
by Gold Member on Apr. 11, 2016 at 9:49 PM
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You both are blaming the wrong person.  It was the fault of the men that raped and molested you.  They both knew they were doing wrong and did it anyway.  

Ray-of-Beezy
by Platinum Member on Apr. 11, 2016 at 9:50 PM
Or maybe, just maybe it was the rapist's fault.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Apr. 11, 2016 at 9:50 PM
I blame my parents. My brother raped me, but he was the golden child and could do no wrong. I didn't tell them for over a decade. They don't understand why I won't have a relationship with him.
Oh well. Can't hurt me now.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Apr. 11, 2016 at 9:51 PM
Yea, it is kinda their fault. If they had disciplined you when you were younger you might not have been out partying.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 11, 2016 at 10:01 PM
They did work. It was impossible to watch me as a teen during that time

Quoting Anonymous 4: Yea, it is kinda their fault. If they had disciplined you when you were younger you might not have been out partying.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Apr. 11, 2016 at 10:02 PM
Its only the rapists' faults. My parents disciplined and I rebelled by sneaking out and getting drunk. They're damned if they do and damned if they don't - when really they hopefully were just doing the best they knew how. And definitely not your fault.
lovemysnugbugs
by Platinum Member on Apr. 11, 2016 at 10:03 PM
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Rape is the fault of the rapist.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 11, 2016 at 10:03 PM
I feel it's my fault still

Quoting mommy2boys03:

You both are blaming the wrong person.  It was the fault of the men that raped and molested you.  They both knew they were doing wrong and did it anyway.  

jamamama00
by on Apr. 11, 2016 at 10:03 PM
I think they hold part of the blame, personally. As do you.
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