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Should I do a 3some for my man

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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My boyfriend of three years and I just got back together after being apart for about 6 months. I broke it because my job moved me.

Anyways now we're back together he moved to my new city and I found out he asked the girl he was dating as a rebound for a 3some while they were together. He left before they could do it but .. I was shocked because It was a fantasy of his he never told me about

He hasn't asked me to do one this convo was a long time ago but I wonder
1. Why didn't he ever ask me for one did he not feel comfortable sharing his fantasy with me?

2. Should I do one w him? He never asked but I don't want him to look to others for his fantasy. I'm thinking maybe I should surprise him for his birthday or something
Posted by Anonymous on May. 8, 2016 at 9:56 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 8, 2016 at 9:57 PM
I wouldn't.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on May. 8, 2016 at 9:57 PM
Been there, done that. Don't do it.
admsj5
by Emerald Member on May. 8, 2016 at 9:59 PM
I wouldn't.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 8, 2016 at 9:59 PM
I never did one b4... What happened did it ruin things

Quoting Anonymous 3: Been there, done that. Don't do it.
chickensmommy
by Platinum Member on May. 8, 2016 at 10:00 PM
Nope, not unless you want the relationship to end.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on May. 8, 2016 at 10:01 PM
Yes and no. It only opened up doors to him trying more& more things that I want comfortable with & he started doing it behind my back. Then he used the 3 some as blackmail against me.

Quoting Anonymous 1: I never did one b4... What happened did it ruin things
Quoting Anonymous 3: Been there, done that. Don't do it.
MeaganP
by Platinum Member on May. 8, 2016 at 10:01 PM
I wont. I dont like sharing
MasterJenJen
by on May. 8, 2016 at 10:02 PM
Nope. That's a good way to ruin what you just fixed.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on May. 8, 2016 at 10:02 PM
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I wouldn't do it. He probably didn't have any respect for her and that's why he asked her and not you. 

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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 8, 2016 at 10:02 PM
I'm thinking doing it on vacation or something... I just don't understand why he shared that fantasy w her and not me in all the years we were together

Quoting Anonymous 3: Yes and no. It only opened up doors to him trying more& more things that I want comfortable with & he started doing it behind my back. Then he used the 3 some as blackmail against me.

Quoting Anonymous 1: I never did one b4... What happened did it ruin things
Quoting Anonymous 3: Been there, done that. Don't do it.
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